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Submitted by Jewals on Mon, 07/14/2014 - 7:32am

Just venting ...

So I caught the little butt throwing food in my car last night .. I told him to pick it up and that we don't do that ... He immediately starts saying our 2 year old was doing it 1st... I said well you are the unlucky one that got caught & don't follow your brothers foot steps bc he is 2 and if an 8stb9 year old does what a 2 year old does ur gonna get in trouble. I also make my 2 year old clean up his messes when he throws food... However I can't make a 2 year old get out of the car seat and clean it up while I'm driving not did I see him throw food ... I did see the 8 year old throw it in my floor & tell him to stop & he continued.. OBVIOUSLY I'm gonna fuss .. DH says well 2 year old was throwing food .. SERIOUSLY?!?! so he finally tells 8 year old to shut up.. What is wrong with ppl??

Not only does he throw out the well he was doing it but he glared at me & tells me to stop.. Seriously ?? I'm calling you down for throwing food in MY CAR..the car I pay for .. No sir .. You don't get to tell me to stop fussing at you

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Submitted by internaltwist on Mon, 07/14/2014 - 7:37am

Very frustrating. My SS18 and SD12stb13 would nag and fight with each other all the time. SS18 was the one that got in trouble the most. Every time I would tell him to not let his little sister outsmart him. No reason you should be fighting with a little girl. Thankfully they don't pester each other much anymore now that they're older and SS18 is gone a lot with friends and work. But boy, it sure is annoying when they get into it!

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Submitted by thinkthrice on Mon, 07/14/2014 - 7:49am

Ah Ye Olde Double Standard rears it's ugly head again. The incessant comparing apples to oranges to defend one's one loin fruit and non-existent parenting.

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Submitted by Jewals on Mon, 07/14/2014 - 7:54am

I mean I didn't see the little one throw food.. I did see the 8 year old do it ... When we r at home I'm constantly making my kid pick up, he gets in trouble .. They both get in trouble for throwin food ..

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Submitted by thinkthrice on Mon, 07/14/2014 - 7:56am

Right, but you have a guilty daddy on your hands. These types could witness their children live on a video stream committing an axe murder and you would STILL hear all the excuses in the book.

(SIGH)

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Submitted by Jewals on Mon, 07/14/2014 - 7:59am

Oh yea totally..he's doing better than he was with it .. But good grief I'm gonna be crazy

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Mon, 07/14/2014 - 8:14am

An 8 year old knows better (or should) that you dont throw food...period...

Your DH is not doing his son any favors by doing the double standard.

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Submitted by Jewals on Mon, 07/14/2014 - 9:09am

My point exactly!!!! I keep saying how am I suppose to expect Bs to behave properly when he sees his older brother misbehave continuously and it's ok