I asked / told ss14 last week that his father wanted a new golf bag for Father's Day. D asked if he wanted to help pick one out. He shrugged buss houses and said "I don't really want to they him that".

Fine. No problem. I licked one out on my own after consulting with one if dh's friends regarding what dh might like. Package arrived Friday night without my knowing, dh brought it in. We'd it's dropped off ss with bm. I let him open it since it was just us and baby. He was thrilled.

We pick ss back up last night from bm's for the Father's Day holiday (he has two weeks with bm but Father's Day falls right at the beginning so as dumb as it is we go along with the court order as it's too difficult to try and negotiate / communiamcate with the whore bag

Anyway, this morning I give dh 2 cards - one from me and one from baby. Dh and I run to the grocery store and let ss know. He hobbles down the stairs with nothing. I wait for dh to leave and have ss sign the card that my three children sighed for dh (dh's skids, who love and adore him). Ss laughs but then signs the card.

Kid is an asshole.

Later dh is happily setting up his clubs in his new bag and setting up a set/ bag for ss. I arranged for us to go to the driving range later today and for dh to go play golf with a friend tomorrow. Dh is in heaven. Polishing his clubs or whatever he is doing.

Ss asks repeatedly (after being told over and over and over - seriously) what "fancy restaraunt we're going to.

Ss walks by and says "I want to use that one today". Um no a-hole. You're lucky you are even going.

I told dh maybe he and ss shoukd go to the range alone after lunch so they could spend some time together becore ss's 12 days with bm. Dh says "whatever you want". I don't want to go be around the kid but if I don't go, dh will come back irritated and annoyed with his son.

Oh joy.

Ps: asked ss if he'd rather get a boat this summer or go on a nice trip. He said "hmmm... That's hard because a. Vaction sounds fun but if we get a boat, we can tell everyone we have a boat and they'll think it's cool. (My lecture quickly ensued)