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SD3 is starting preschool!!

FTMandSM's picture

Smile While I am very excited for SD to start preschool, I am anticipating the call from BM to SO demanding more money! I can just here it now:

BM: I need more money for her school clothes and supplies
SO: Let me know what she needs and I'll go get it.
BM: Why can't you just give me the money?
SO: Cause I don't trust you.
BM: Eff YOU!!! Click

*Ring*Ring*-Oh look it's BM calling...

BM: I hate you!! You are such a POS!!!!
SO: Let me know what she needs and I'll go get it.
BM: Whaaaa Whaaaa Whaaa Blah Blah Blah Eff you, Eff this, Eff that..
SO: Click

*Ring*Ring* Oh look BM is calling for about the 12th time...

LOL!! This is how I imagine this going down. When she learns that we won't just give her money.

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3familiesIn1's picture

When SS started Kindergarten, BM called DH to inform him the money he had been paying the daycare ($800 a month) was now to be given to her instead since SS didn't need daycare anymore..............

and no, that didn't happen, how entitled is THAT?

ncgal1980's picture

Oh my! I'd bust a gut laughing if anybody called and said I now needed to start paying them $800 a month because the kid started school! Ha ha ha *snort* That's a riot!

Then I'd thank BM for the good laugh and hang up on her beggin' ass.

FTMandSM's picture

They were texting but she is what I like to call a text whore. She will text non-stop. He blocked her number so now they communicate via phone calls only. It has actually cut down on a lot of the nonsense. I just know that this will send her into BM Crazy mode. He will more than likely turn the phone off.

QueenBeau's picture

He could block her from calling for the rest of the day. That may help.

We deal with the same crazy BM. DH also had to block her from texting. She would call herself getting 'mad' & send DH 100 texts about why she was pissed. Nobody gives a flying f*ck. So now she has toned down the crazy because she has to call, & she isn't quick enough with her comments to beat anyone in an argument verbally where she can't think of her replies first like while texting.

FTMandSM's picture

Right Queen!! BM would send text after text after text...she would text him for two days over something silly.

QueenBeau's picture

Don't get me started

When SD started kindergarten BM kept calling DH to ask for $100 to pay for half of SD's school supply list. DH asked to see the list. BM refused. She called him a dead beat, said her boyfriend (BF of her other child, who he abandoned for 2 years & just showed back up) was going to supply all of SD's needs, blah blah blah.

I got online, found the list. It was:
Crayons
Glue stick
Hand sanitizer
Tissues.

That's it. DH bought it 10x of everything & donated the other sets to the classroom during orientation.

After orientation, BM is like... "So... are you going to give your half of the school supplies?"
DH is like... "Did you not just see all those big boxes I donated? Those are all the supplies. I put SD's name on 2 boxes of everything."
BM is like "oh... I didn't know that was all of it." -rolls eyes-

Then BM proceeded to tell DH they needed to decide how they were going to split up paying for SD's lunch... BM is on free or reduced lunch... DH was like "FFS if you can't feed SD when she's with you, go ahead & have the bills sent to my house. WTF."

BM never mentioned that again either lol

FTMandSM's picture

This made me laugh!! What a loon!! $100 for crayons, glue sticks, hand sanitizer, and tissues....They must be golden like her uterus....LOL!!

QueenBeau's picture

Yep. I guess she didn't realize they publish the list online & it was really easy to obtain.

DH went to sams club & bought everything in bulk for like 25 bucks.

Then he bought SD like 5 outfits for school as well.

STILL didn't spend 100 bucks.

bearcub25's picture

I remember the first year of step hell and realized what I was dealing with over a pair of shoes.

For some reason my BM sizes shoes differently than the rest of the world. I was taught, the difference between big toe and end of shoe should be about the width of your thumb. BM thinks it should be double the size of the foot. We had the skids try on their shoes that first year and since DSO is a fucking moron, I tested my thumb rule and they fit perfectly and skids said they fit fine.

BM goes to the dollar store and buys the cheapest shoes, no matter the size (and she gets free vouchers). I think after the third time of having to return the shoes, I just bought DSO a new pair of shoes, was his money anyway. Since we wouldn't turn over the receipt or the tags, BM was just running me around.

I also found out her Christmas present rule. The skids came on Christmas day with new outfits...the stuff we bought for back to school. Definitely changed the way we bought their stuff after that.