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Submitted by Sunflower1 on Sat, 03/15/2014 - 2:20pm

When we left for the wedding, SD told us her mom have her two cameras and was told to take as many pictures of DH and I as she could. Whatever, SD only took the camera out the day of the wedding and took pics...I think we all know why. I did what thought was the nice thing and sent the photos that we bought from the resort. The photos I sent were of SD only, I guess because I'm not a sadist...I didn't really think she would want our family photos. We have pictures that I'm going to make into a scrapbook for SD. Apparently I thought wrong, she is accusing DH of being a bad father for not picking up a camera and taking pictures to send to her for SD. First you sent two cameras with SD, she clearly didn't take enough photos for your liking but she had two cameras!! Second, she implied that she should get some of the wedding photos! WTF. It feels like a gross attempt to violate our privacy and boundaries. Am I wrong? One of my girlfriends thinks I'm over reacting and there is no harm in handing them over, I think this reenforces her control issues. Thoughts?

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Submitted by Sunflower1 on Sat, 03/15/2014 - 3:12pm

Thanks, I didn't mean to come across sharp at you Sad I was just reintegrating that I had already sent some.

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Submitted by Sunflower1 on Sat, 03/15/2014 - 3:00pm

Part of me thinks, ok you want pictures of SD on vaction then take SD on vacation yourself. SMH.

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Submitted by Jsmom on Sat, 03/15/2014 - 3:28pm

No over reaction. I never gave BM any pics from our wedding. I think there was one of SD alone and I may have given that. That is creepy as hell.

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Submitted by QueenBeau on Sat, 03/15/2014 - 5:08pm

BM use to do this to DH. We blocked her from texting both phones. She can still callDH but can't text. We have sprint & it was free to do this. You should look into it, it helped us a lot.

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Submitted by Sunflower1 on Sat, 03/15/2014 - 4:37pm

Thanks guys. I'll be posting another blog after work, apparently now that we are married "I" have to step up to the plate-whatever that means...

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Submitted by QueenBeau on Sat, 03/15/2014 - 5:08pm

I suggest you block BM from your life completely.. I wish I would have done it earlier. She can just deal with/talk to DH. You don't have to do ANYTHING.

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Submitted by Sunflower1 on Sat, 03/15/2014 - 5:38pm

She just developed them today (SD is with us this weekend), and is mad because the photos are blurry-which I guess is why we are supposed to turn over our photos :?