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Submitted by sweetpudge on Tue, 03/11/2014 - 8:10am

My husbands ex wife and children have made allegations against us both, she says he is a wife beating rapist and I am a child abuser,obviously all complete lies.She has posted these lies on social media sites and told professionals these lies and refuses to let the kids visit,he does not know what she is doing. The children have stolen jewellery from me which they deny and of course the ex wife believes them. I no longer want these children in my house but it makes it difficult for my husband as he is stuck in the middle.
The children have also accused my oldest son 13 at the time,of doing things to them,they then admitted they had lied and said it because they want to stay with their mum and not visit dad.Don't know what to do anymore.

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HungryEyes's picture

Submitted by HungryEyes on Tue, 03/11/2014 - 8:35am

^^^This and only this. If my skids ever falsely accused one of my own bios of touching them like yours did - they would be out of my life forever. Do you know what kind of damage that does to a kid?

You need to get an atty immediately. And you need to tell your husband to do something to protect you. If this were me, he'd be visiting his kids away from my home. They would not be welcome back.

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Submitted by Mercury on Tue, 03/11/2014 - 8:33am

This is serious. You got off easy if they admitted they lied bit what about the next time? This could ruin your son's life. He could be placed on a registry for no reason.

Get an attorney. Make sure you and your son aren't around them when they visit if at all possible

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Submitted by calm retreat on Tue, 03/11/2014 - 11:20am

If they are doing this to avoid seeing your DH then I suggest he stop seeing them. Period. Seeing them will only aggravate the situation. Once they think they've got their way the false allegations should stop. Parental alienation is a wicked evil thing. I think you could have an attorney help draft a letter to notify BM of the change in visitation. She won, but now these little devils are her problem. And believe me, PAS is really difficult to undo once they're stricken.