Pissed and embarrassed
I can't even concentrate at work right now. Just went to the coffee shop by the office to do a coffee run for my co-workers. It’s my day to do it. I got my order made swiped my card and declined and I'm searching my purse remembering the cash DH usually splits with me was stolen yesterday. Had to call over a Co-worker to foot the bill promising to pay her back. So fucking embarrassing. So apparently SD18 tapped out my card along with everything else she stole. I called the credit company and reported it. As soon as I get off I'm driving up to the police station and raising hell something has to be done or I will do it myself. I mean that you don't even fucking now right now. I want her fucking ass in jail. I'm at work trying to choke back tears a golf ball sized lump in my throat. I want to ring her fucking neck right now. I don't even want to walk past my co-worker on the way out so embarrassed. I can't even fucking focus my mind is racing my blood is boiling at this point I'm just not even a part of my own body all I can see is red. I want to kill her I'm not even kidding that’s exactly how I feel. After all the fucking shit I did for her. I was there when her mom when her mom abandoned her I was the one helping raise her all these years while her mom ran off and got thrown in jail. Her father busted his ass for her every day of her fucking life and she steals from us. For drugs and I know it was for drugs. DH is fucking devastated he punched a hole in the wall. I want her ass in jail before I get my hands on her I swear to everything right now if it wasn't for DD and step-GS I would be in jail right now for driving over there and losing it on her I fucking swear! I could choke the life out of her. She stole the pendant my grandmother gave me before she died I can never get that back. I can’t think straight I'm shaking I can't not get through this day.
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That sucks....Just make sure
That sucks....Just make sure you go to local pawn shops for the pendant and be sure and prosecute. Notify credit card companies and the credit bureaus...
Also, I will lay you odds your husband tried and talk you out of prosecuting. But, that is the only way to make sure it doesn't happen to you again. <>
Wow! I feel terrible for
Wow! I feel terrible for you. I also think I might want to kick DH's ass.
TickedOff, you got her ass
TickedOff, you got her ass now! Because she used your card you can find out where exactly the card was used (even the time for some card companies) and go to that business and get the security footage of her using your card! Make the police do their damn jobs! You can now get actual footage of her using the stolen card. Once the cops arrest her for that then they can search her house and find any other stolen property.
Thank you stepkat that ass is
Thank you stepkat that ass is mines! I promise you that right now. She will not get away with this I'm so fucking serious.
Here is some info you may
Here is some info you may like. http://www.creditcardoutlaw.com/my-blog/2010/01/to-catch-a-credit-card-t...
Also, I found the law for your state regarding Credit card theft. http://leg1.state.va.us/cgi-bin/legp504.exe?000+cod+18.2-192
§ 18.2-192. Credit card theft.
(1) A person is guilty of credit card or credit card number theft when:
And then...
§ 18.2-95. Grand larceny defined; how punished.
Any person who (i) commits larceny from the person of another of money or other thing of value of $5 or more, (ii) commits simple larceny not from the person of another of goods and chattels of the value of $200 or more, or (iii) commits simple larceny not from the person of another of any firearm, regardless of the firearm's value, shall be guilty of grand larceny, punishable by imprisonment in a state correctional facility for not less than one nor more than twenty years or, in the discretion of the jury or court trying the case without a jury, be confined in jail for a period not exceeding twelve months or fined not more than $2,500, either or both.
Oh just go whoop her ass.
Oh just go whoop her ass. DH's exwife once punched me in the face. I never raised a hand to her. She got 6 hours community service and nothing on her record. I say go whoop her ass.
I dont want to wait for shit
I dont want to wait for shit to happen. I'm going to stay on top of everything trust me she will get hers. You can't imagine how I'm feeling right now can't think about anything else I'm so pissed I'm getting a rash on my chest.
TickedOff, I understand
TickedOff, I understand completly that your mad (who wouldn't be). However, you need to calm down. It’s good that you’re going to stay on top of this, but getting yourself so worked up is not going to help. Stay motivated but calm yourself. Getting this angry is only going to cause you to get sick. This little bitch already stole property; don’t let her steal your health and sanity as well.
I can't I can't face my boss
I can't I can't face my boss right now I look like a fucking mess my eyes and nose are red and puffy and my hair is a mess from straching my head so hard. to be honest I'm to proud to walk in there looking like my puppy ran away and ask for the day off. But I can't focus at all.
DH is on his way to walk me
DH is on his way to walk me out of the office so I can keep some dignity or else I'm going to break down. I'm not even trying to be dramatic I have never felt this way. Just sick to my stomach pyschically and emotionally. I'm really hurt just at the fact that we did so much for her to grow up and turn into a little shit and steal from us. I'm going to stay offline for the rest of the day just working myself up more. Thank you guys for all of your support.
I can't imagine what your
I can't imagine what your feeling right now, but I'm actually pissed for you myself!
Don't worry about your co-workers...they would completely understand.
On another note, you might want to think about deleting some of the statements from your original post, (just in case something should ever happen to your SD!).
Ticked, been where you are
Ticked, been where you are which is why ysd is not allowed in the house per DH. If the pendant was of a precious metal go by the gold buyers around where you live and were she lives. Most places require them to hold on the item for 7-10 days before reselling the item.
Sounds like SD got in deep with a dealer.
I would totally be upset like
I would totally be upset like you, too. Especially when the police, who you expect are going to protect you, say they can't do anything!
You have no reason at ALL to be embarrassed. It has happened more often than you think to people.