So... My step son bent down to play outside... With all of us around... It was very obvious that out if his shorts were a pair of my THONG BACK panties. My first thought was, "do jock straps come in nude thomg back from Old Navy?" Yeah, no they don't! I took a second look & then we caught eyes. He pulled at his shirt to cover them, then went in shortly after to the bathroom. I later found them hidden in the bathroom. I talked to my husband about it... We have a VERY CONTENTIOUS custody situation with both his ex & mine. We didn't feel we could confront it & still don't. We have found my panties hidden under his pillow & other places in his room. My biggest fear is he's going to drum up shit & say we force him to wear them. So... Now I go thru the laundry & make sure none are to be found. ....we found him in the laundry room going thru MY clean pile. Ugh. I googled this. It's said its common but not normal. I'm totally freaked out. If he takes a pair home... I'm scared he will place himself as a victim & say this was forced. It's his pattern. What do you think we should do???