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Got a hold of SD17stb18 Twitter account. She is a royal fuck up...And I'm the dumbass that fell for it.

ubrngoutdbitchnme's picture

How many of you allow your kids to have a Twitter account? Back when SD was maybe 14 asked for a twitter account and was told no. She had no business being on twitter to only be posting moronic crap. Her text messages back then proved she was capable of posting moronic crap.

To get some history on my situation feel free read my previous blogs. To make a long story short, I completely got conned by SD17. She came back from her BMs playing the part that she had changed, she wasn't going to put us through anymore bs. According to BM, SD17 gets drunk and smokes and sleeps around and other things.....SD17 swore that she had changed...YEAH FUCKEN RIGHT!!!

She totally played me for a fool. Coming to me and asking for permission to spend the night at her girlfriends houses. One girlfriend that I allowed was a friend that SO did NOT want her hanging out with. Calling me for permission to go to a water park when in fact her and her girlfriends were sneaking off to pool parties that take place at hotels were they are supposedly meant for 21 and over! Going to a party were SD and her friend were the only females and doing beer bong shots or hits or whatever it is you call them.

We recently got her an iPhone. It was MY idea to get her that phone. If I would have read her tweet from July 7th, 2013, I would have never bought her that phone. I have been renting a room since Memorial Day weekend. SO and I are trying to work things out. Now I don't think so anymore. 4th of July, SO and I got into an argument and I left. July 7th, SD17 felt the need to tweet: Everytime my dad kicks out his girlfriend thigs are okay, okay. She used the okay symbols. Wow!!!! And yet the next day she came to me with a little sad, innocent voice asking me if I would help her out with refilling her birth control that is for her acne and her acne cream. And there I go running like a fool to the pharmacy. That tweet she tweeted from SS16 iPod that has that we didn't know about.

Then she got her iPhone 2 weeks ago. To make a long long story short thanks to SS16 disrespectful ass we got a hold of SD17 twitter account. She is an idiot for posting pics of herself underage drinking, holding a prescription bottle full of marijuana. A picture of her holding 2 full bottles of alcohol. Tweeting how she got them so many drinks at the pool.....

I told SO that I am done. Don't need this shit in my life. He wants to work it out but I told him that I don't even want to see his daughter anymore. He has her iPhone but of course she has a password that he didn't ask for. I'm tempted to tell him to not even bother at looking through her twitter account. What the fuck is my problem in thinking that?!? He needs to see it for himself.

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thinkthrice's picture

Time to disengage. I don't bother showing Guilty DAddy what his minor children are posting on FB and it isn't good. I've learned that no matter what horrendous things these skids do, daddykins is always willing to get out that turd and start polishing it.

cpreston's picture

GIve him her Twitter, look her up on Tumblr, and Facebook and Vine and Instagram
She's probably got an account on ALL of them that she flaunts this kind of behavior

My DD Is 14 she has a facebook, an Instagram and a Tumblr
I have the passwords to ALL of them and the unlock code to her phone
so if she decides to be sneaky and create this stuff on her phone I can look in on that too

She's only 14, and I monitor her stuff. sometimes she knows it sometimes not
so far (Thank GOD) there's nothing shocking or upsetting

ubrngoutdbitchnme's picture

SO feels really bad. He cried in front of his kids and they started to cry. I wasn't there for the waterworks. I left to my rental. I knew SO was going to show up. He did so and left me a plate of food.

I am sooooo angry. Totally got played by her. I don't Even want to see her.

I don't think I'm capable of going back to SOs and disengage. Tried it too many times but I always give in. I need to remove myself from them. We really thought SD17 had changed. I don't know exactly how SO is going to deal with SD17 and SS16. For sure he is cutting SD17 off from her iPhone and friends. Ss16 also lost his iPod privileges. No wonder the kid didnt want to give up his password on his iPod....

ubrngoutdbitchnme's picture

Before she got sent to her moms last year, SD caused a lot of arguments between SO and I. He thought I was being too hard on her or overreacting. After her little stunt that got her sent to BMs and other drama that happened between SO amd I, he realized that he messed up too. Not paying attention to ME but letting SD off the hook or allowing to disrespect me.

Only reason she is back is because BM kicked them out. I work out of SOs home office. I was basically a SAHM for them. I did everything for them that their pos BM didn't do for them. SD came back saying she was sorry for everything she put us through. Whatfuckenever.

I can't disengage and live with them full time. No way. I have tried it and with my personality it doesn't work. This one is being left up to SO. According to him, both skids will not be allowed Internet access. Right. SD17 is done. She is no longer going to go to the high school that she was hoping to get to attend her senior year. She is done. She may end up running away when she turns 18 next
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oldone's picture

No one should ever tolerate living with trash.

How soon until she turns 18? Your SO should remove her from his life until she decides not to be a POS tramp. Would you go back with him if she was permanently absent?

ubrngoutdbitchnme's picture

She turns 18 in September. She has a one year left of high school. And she was hoping we were going to allow her to go to a different high school that would have consisted of us taking her to school every morning and picking her up every day after school. Now she is stuck going to the high school that she belongs to were according to her she has no more friends. And she can ride the school bus. Yay for her!

I will not go back as a girlfriend while she is still there. Main reason why I haven't
Gone back since moving out. Told SO I would not go back as a girlfriend. Now after reading his kids tweets about me, I pass on going back. I can't disengage and live with them full time!!!

ubrngoutdbitchnme's picture

You have to have data on the iphone in order for it to function. SO pays the bill, I make sure it gets paid. I went back to his house yesterday to grab a phone statement since I don't know the account number. I plan on shutting the phone off for right now. But first SO needs to see for himself who is daughter really is.

hismineandours's picture

Mh teens have instagram's, vine's, twitters, and facebook. I have their passwords and am "friends" with them on all their accounts. I don't mind that they have them as long as I have access to them. Rarely in the years they've had them have I ever had to tell them to remove anything-if I did it was something silly in which my girls where just being overly dramatic and attn. seeking. I have taken these opportunities to teach them what is appropriate to post out in cyberspace and what's not. Evidently your sd never got these lessons.

If my kiddos were posting inappropriate things or using their iphones, ipods to text shit about me or dh? Oh, hell, yeah those things would be confiscated and shut off. I'm not paying for anyone to talk to shit about me. We don't pay for any of ss's phone or whatnot-but if we did and he talked inappropriately-I would not hesitate to shut it off myself without even discussing it with dh. I have no illusions that my ss15 talks badly about me-I know he does-I don't even care-but there'd be no way in hell I'd ever consider paying for him to talk shit about me. Other than that if he wants to post dumb shit on facebook about himself (which he has-advertising a party in which "stuff" was going to be available at)more power to him. He's an idiot. If we have any mutual friends and my friends see him post dumb shit it just gives them more understanding of why I don't want him in my home.

ubrngoutdbitchnme's picture

SD wasn't allowed to have a twitter account when she lived with us. Of course she opened one up behind our backs. She got caught when she accidentally printed out her twitter pages. Dumbass...

And of course her Cool Mommy allowed her to have a twitter account when she moved in with her. Both BM and SD are fuck ups. BM even allowed SD to come back to our home town behind our backs and stay with friends. Both of them belong with each other.