:jawdrop: By the way my boyfriend, me and the kids live together
I have 10 brothers and sisters that my dad created with different women and 1 from my mother that she created with my step-father. When my father would leave and hang with his friends I was always the adult and the mother/father to them, I'm the oldest one out of all of my siblings. So being with kids wasn't an issue but being young being a mother and a father was a big role for someone like me. Before the kids came into the picture the relationship was okay I guess we didn't do much but we still felt sparks and I would go days without sleep for the fact that when he went to bed I would always think about the kids and how would they would react with me and how everything will turn out. I would go to new jersey for the weekends to see my family and when I come back I would feel so full of life. One weekend when I got back from New Jersey back to the house they were there the baby was sleeping in the crib and the boy was watching TV that same day he called me "MOM" I was taken back as you would say. Someone calling you "MOM" and you just met them was a bit awkward when his father(my boyfriend) would go to work he would act up so much, jump on the couch, raid the fridge talk back and wouldn't even ask for things and just take it. I took it easy on him because well I was being a mother figure to him and the baby. The baby is like any baby she sleeps, eats and uses the bathroom in her diaper she isn't a problem. Which It kills me a bit to say this but the 5 year old makes me feel depressed I know this may sound stupid and everything and parents are probably thinking she's a baby herself, you have to be patient with the kids and everything.