My sucky ass SS12 has decided that he is going to escalate with me. I'm so sick of this. Last night DH had a talk about how I am completely fed up with his behavior. In the past few months he has:

-Snuck an old cell phone to download games (all guns and killing).
-Texting people horrible cuss words even though his friends texted him back to stop.
-Cut the power chord of my computer because his cell phone was taken away.
-Spit on an assignment his teacher gave him and said, "That's what I think of your assignment."
-Hacked his phone (which was blocked from the internet) and downloaded games (part II or III of the above problem)
-Flipped out on a teacher so bad that they FINALLY suspended him.

So I finally had it. I took all video games and returned them to Gamestop and was promptly told by DH that that wasn't fair because he used his money to buy some of those games. I SS's cell phone to a friend and told DH that if another smartphone comes into my house for SS I give it away again. I was told that I'm going to the extreme. After the suspension, I decided that SS12 needed to lose his Nerfguns now, and I was told that I am doing my best to strip my SS down to nothing.

So I said I was leaving and am done. That's when the come to Jesus meeting happened and DH talked out of his piehole and said he would lay down the law (yeah right). Now SS is at BM's house and is being brainwashed.

What do you think? Am I going too far?

My dad's wife (sort of stepmom, but they've only been together for a little while) sent me this long ass email about how I shouldn't give up on SS and basically that I need to change in order to keep my family together. Except once again, I am the only person who makes his f-ing psychology appts, dental appts, eye appts, doctor appts, gets him in to sports, makes sure he does his homework, etc. (Yeah, I get it, it's a cry for his REAL parents to pay attention, hence the reason I should leave) and have I EVER been thanked? Nope, not once.