I've been gone a long time, mainly because things have been going really, really well over here. DH is doing his job as a father and consequently, *surprise, surprise,* the skids pulled their shit together. The long drawn out battles have ceased, the fighting between skids is under control, the nasty disrespectful crap behavior is gone... Things are finally... "normal." Not perfect. But "normal." We were even able to have all three of the kids together with no insane squabbling or fighting.

Back in January or February I learned that BM and her H are getting a divorced. This is bad news for us. We all know that when the BM's are happy and satisfied elsewhere, that they leave us the hell alone. So I fully anticipate that the drama on that end will start back up. Mainly in the form of CS. CS is due to be recalculated next year (05/2014) so now we can fully expect a full-on frontal attack for more money. :sick:

THEN she started the whole "turning the kids against her ex" game with the skids. They come over here talking crap about the man who she professed to be so f*cking amazing and that the kids just "adored" him. She's telling the skids that he's not giving her any money, that he is being mean to her, blah, blah, blah. It's all the same old sick shit she told the kids about us. That woman has some serious issues. How disgusting to pull kids into fighting your battles.

Anywho... all of that is still none of our business. So we were just sitting over here counting our lucky stars that the drama is staying over there.

And then BM's new soon-to-be-ex called my H last night. :?

First he sends my H a text to see if he is available to talk. He was.

Oh man. The top of my head feels like it is going to explode right off. Get this...

That dumb mother f*cker had the audacity to call us/my H last night to ASK US TO GIVE BM MORE MONEY!!!!! :jawdrop:

WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAT??

Yeah.

SUPPOSEDLY, that dumb, fat, lazy, welfare leech of a whore is about to be evicted for the home she lives in, all of the utilities are on the verge of being shut off, she's about to lose her vehicle to repossession, and she can't put food on the table.

WHAAAAAAAT??

Ok, wait. WHAAAAAAAAAT??

So she's renting her aunts house and her AUNT is going to evict her?? WHAAAAAT? The last we heard the rent was only $300.00. Huh?

And she gets f*cking $700.00 per month in FOOD STAMPS! WHY can't she put food on the table? WHAAAAAAT?

So this dumb mother f*cker calls us/my H last night to LECTURE US/MY H about how important it is for us/my H to give her MORE MONEY, because, you know, it's our/my H's job to make sure the kids are being properly cared for and they are suffering, yada, yada, yada. If she loses her van then the kids won't have transportation. The kids will be living in a home with no utilities and can't eat.

So, OF COURSE, the natural solution to that problem is NOT for BM to get off of her fat, lazy ass to GO GET A JOB, but instead to try to get MORE money from people who are ALREADY supporting her lazy ass?? You have GOT to be kidding me.

:sick:

He then proceeds to tell us/my H that he is paying MORE for the one kid he has with her than we/my H is paying for his two. Um, we pay $1k per month. Yes, $1k for those two kids. And he is paying MORE than that for ONE kid? Who's the dumb ass?

But let's do some math here. Her monthly TAX FREE income FOR DOING NOTHING is:

$1,000.00 child support from us for the twins
$1,100.00 (?) child support from her soon-to-be-ex for his one kid
$ 600.00 from the state for the oldest daughter because her dad is in jail
$ 700.00 in food stamps

That's $3,500.00 f*cking PER MONTH!!!!! WHAAAAAAT?????

And she's about to be evicted, utilities are being shut off, and her van is going to be repossessed? WHAAAAAT???

And the solution to the problem is for us to give her MORE money???

This dude MUST be on crack.

He then proceeds to tell us that "despite everything she has done to him" he is still giving her cash on the side, in fact had just given her $850 to help out with everything while she was waiting for CS to be dispersed from the state. (So take the above amount and ADD $850 to it... and that STILL isn't enough???) He's telling us that, although he has an apartment, he is sleeping in a friends semi-truck in some ghetto so that he doesn't have to spend money on gas to drive back and forth for work (long distance). Ok, cool dude. That's your gig - not our f*cking concern. And that he is making ALLLLLLLLL of these sacrifices and giving her ALLLLLLLL of this money to help her AND US in order to take care of the twins....

You know, because he, "LOVES THEM SO MUCH" and so he wants to provide for them and take care of them. So it's time that WE stepped up to the plate and started doing our fair share."

Yup. Those words actually came out of his mouth.

O.M.G.

So we aren't doing our FAIR SHARE??

W. T. F.

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