Hello first time on this site and I guess first time writing a blog bare with me I will end up jumping around a bit. I have 2 SK SD is 12 and  SS is 11 I have been in their lives for the last 7 years. When DH and I got together SD was 5 and SS was 4 right from the get go SD didnt like me but SS loved me. SS and I were best buds it was so nice he was my little man. They didnt know their BM she left when SD was only 1.5 years old and SS was only 6 months old. DH and BM wont lie were drug addicts. DH ended up divorcing BM and winning full custody of kids which he then had to hand temporary custody to OG=other guardain not BM to serve his time in jail. DH gets out early gets off drugs but OG keeps kids until DH can get on his feet and take care of kids. Fine thats all good. DH get his crap together years later but OG wont give kids back. OG treats SD like a princess who can do no wrong while she treats SS like a dog. SD got to sleep in a nice warm bed while SS either slept on the floor or a couch. 

Fast forward 2 years, crap happened between DH and OG. OG put a no contact order on DH and I for 2 years really sucked not seeing or talking to my little man. SD was 7 and SS was 6.  Lots of problems happend with SS that we werent able to help with because of the order. He was almost suspended in 1st grade for anger and behavioral problems. Normal when your dad gets taken away from you. 

Fast forward another 2 years finally get to see kids again SD is now 9 and still  doesnt like me actually has a hatered for me. SS is now 8 and has lost alot of intrest in me really. Understandable we hadn't seen them for 2 years or talked to them its normal.I had to start recording when I was alone with them becasue THE PRINCESS would go back to OG and lie about what I did or said to them to the point it was getting out of hand and honestly I was afraid THE PRINCESS and OG were going to get me arrested for supposable child abuse. And at this point SS was in on it too both were turning into the biggest manipulators I have ever seen at age 9 and 8. Many fight between DH and I over them lieing about me and DH only having my back half the time. Sometimes the monsters would lie to him about me and he would believe them so thats when I got a graveyard shift. Screw being around them during the day on their breaks and visitations I had the excuse to sleep because I worked nights.

Fast forward another 2 years SD is 11 and SS is 10. SS is charged with theft for stealing chrome books and cell phones from school and was put on probation SD contaced BM off a friends FB account. Talked to BM for weeks before letting OG know what she did. OG takes SD down to meet her BM without letting DH know that she was even talking to BM. Ever since that day she meet BM she has been nothing but a evil little B*TCH! She is dead set on living with her BM which the state has already informed everyon that none of the CHILDREN will ever live with her because she has lost her rights to ALL 4 of her kids. 

Back in August DH finally won custody of the kids from OG. YAY we thought but little did we know the real NIGHTMARE started. SS has become a compulsive liar you literally cant believe anything out of his mouth and then gets mad at you when you tell him you dont believe him. When he knows he's in trouble he will lie to other family memebers to get you in a fight and then that way he doesnt have to deal with his consquences because we are dealing with the FREAKING problem he started. SD has the nasty mouth and absolutley no respect for anybody. She doesnt even respect her self enough to change clothes or her bedding. You have to remind her to take a shower to brush her hair and teeth. She constatly talks crap to you and gives you dirty looks and refuses to do her chores. SD got CPS called on us because she was grounded and we took the internet and TV away from her so she told the school she feared for her life. Now we get to do family therapy yay!!! Not !!!! 

We found porn on both of their school chrome books which i have no idea how the hell the freaking school could allow that! On SD computer we found how to divorce parents, how to get removed from the home and many more of the same topics. Like she is really doing her research and the sad part about it after 7 years of BULLSH*T with these kids my love for myself and my DH have died. I cant even look at those MONSTERS anymore!!!! There are alot more problems that I didnt put on this because I didnt want it to be a book but trust me it can be. I own the house because DH and my marraige was VOID becuase he was still married to BM. And plus I bought the house in 2017 so SD and SS could have their own rooms and no one had to sleep on the floor like a dog. I have decorated their rooms nice panitned them and they've destroyed them. SD purposely locks the cats in her room and yes they do go potty on her floor because she locked them in there. She likes it when her dad and I fight and she likes to get the animals in trouble by blaming stupid stuff on them. For instance she broke her TV in her room and blammed it on my CAT (no one in the house likes this cat but me but the cat also doesnt like anyone but me) so DH and I get in a fight over my cat and how i need to get rid of it blah blah blah my freaking cat isnt going anywhere. We asked her friends because see the cat broke it when her friends were over intresting. Friends come clean say they were ruff housing and kicked the tv off the stand. SD cut my work shoe laces then tied them together to wear I couldnt even get my shoes on but nope it wasn't her it was the animals. I had no idea that animals could tie Knots in shoe laces. I guess mine are pretty trained!!!!!!

I guess this place will be my vent because my family is over these monsters as well. Words of advice from my dad " Lifes to short to be dealing with someone elses shitty kids". When SK arent here its bliss DH and I have a wonderful time together.