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Submitted by Someoneelse on Wed, 12/29/2021 - 9:22am

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So dh's family is gone... all we have is my family.  But before Christmas i got covid, my mother got covid, my brother's whole family got covid... since i got covid DH wasn't allowed to get sd for his turn after Christmas 

My mother says that she wants to go out "Christmas dinner" on new year's daywhich i think is when everyone's quarantine is over.

I haven't asked DH if he plans on getting sd once my quarantine is over or not. I would rather him not. I think he's not, but if i ask, then he might... like I'd be planting that seed, and I'd rather her not come so it's better if i don't ask. 

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Submitted by Someoneelse on Wed, 12/29/2021 - 9:23am

EtA:  if she comes then she'd be here for it Christmas dinner, and i'd rather her not...

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Submitted by SeeYouNever on Wed, 12/29/2021 - 10:52am

I feel like a POS but I do this too and fail to remind him until it's too late. It's his kid if you really wanted to make it happen he can do it himself.

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Submitted by Someoneelse on Wed, 12/29/2021 - 12:46pm

That's kinda how i feel... like maybe i should ask him/ remind him... but i don't want her here; she's a horrible person... i don't know if you've read any of my previous posts... but if you have time/ are interested... it's quite a read... and will explain why i don't want her here. 

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Submitted by Elea on Fri, 12/31/2021 - 1:48am

I can relate so much to what you are saying. I learned a long time ago that the less I remind or inquire about SD's (now adults) the less DH initiates with them. When they were teens BM always needed her "alone time." She would badmouth us and say what a terrible Father DH is but then she loved to dump SD's on us telling DH "you're on." (If we're really so terrible why would you dump the SD's here ... not because you had a job or anything but so that you can be "alone" and do your weird ass hobbies such as journaling?) Anyway, I think these BM's and SD's are clueless about how treating SM's like crap only hurts themselves in the end. If SD's were courteous and endearing then I would make sure they were included but instead they act like jealous BM advocates ... So ... If your Dad "forgets" about you because on some level even he is exhausted by the drama you bring ... Oh well? I guess you get left out.