I did not proof read so my apologies. My mother in law calls  her other kids that are not my husbands her grandkids and it bother my so and me because she's never around for our boys. 
 

he only has one 8 year old boy with his ex that he got pregnate in high school. 

The supervised visits use to be at our house with my mother in law just this last month. Mother in law and bm said only at her house from now on because it works for her better. I get it that's fine she's doing a favor but I am no longer going to be attending the visits. 

Delta 8 is not illegal in our state and that is what we use however is still has thc in it. We by from dispensaries there's nothing illegal about it other than actually marijuana being illegal. 

The court order was placed when my so was 19. He didn't have a stable place after their break up and was trying to get on his feet. Nothing else happened. My step son has never been in danger or around marijuana around us. My so went o mediation and he agreed to all her terms and fulfilled them until she went back to court and he just gave up because we knows he's going to be in and out of court. My step son loves being around us but every time we do something fun we get a hateful message from his mom. My so aggreed to her terms because she kept telling him that she was going to take him completely away and have her husband legally adopt him. At 19-20 he didn't know it wasent possible unless he wasent around. He was bullied into agreeing simply because he didn't want to loose his son

Bm gets to decide because my so doesn't want to go to court. We've tried reasoning with her but all she says is if you don't like my way then let's go to court and my so is scared of loosing his son because he smokes weed even though I tell him he can't because he pays child support and is apart of his life. My step son literally cries about having to leave and barely being apart of this household. He tried asking me why and I didn't feel that was my place so I told him we can ask him mom and daddy together if it would make him feel comrtable but he said no just daddy and my husband didn't wanna explain anything because he's afraid of bm withholding him. She withholds whenever she wants because she knows she can threaten him and he believe it. 

I told him to go to court and see what happens because I highly doubt he can be taken away because he has a whole other family two brothers a active dad and a wanting to be active step mom but I'm not because of my mother in law always being nasty to me and taking ex side. She's told he she has to go see her grandchild. I understand but even when she's super wrong we are fucked

Delta 8 does not have the effects that marijuana does. It's like baby marijuana so it takes your anxoiousness away but it doesn't give you an actual high. It's sold legally like cbd all over Kansas. I guess it's a loophole Kansas has when it comes to marijuana. If a police officer is to stop you and you have the receipt then your good to go. It looks just like marijuana. Google defines it as the following:Unlike CBD, delta-8-THC produces euphoric effects that are similar to but milder than those of delta-9-THC, the well-known psychoactive compound in cannabis. Delta-8-THC is an isomer of delta-9-THC. The only difference between the two molecules is the location of a double bond between two carbons.

He's not going to stop smoking is the problem. He's done everything needed before for it too only last 2 months. He doesn't think the time and effort is worth it anymore.  Hopefully I can convince him but I know he's against it because of all the problems it will cause. He just wants a peaceful life for our boys .
 

Your are right!! All neighbor states are legal and we can easily prove it's bought a actual business nothing illegal. We literally have nothing to loose but money and some court time.