Well it has been a really long time since I blogged (I think the last blog was to let you all know about SD stealing BM's dildo, lol).  Anyways, just a quick blog to update/vent/etc.  

I have been working from home but came into the office today (there is literally only 1 other person in the building and no where near me).  Work has been super busy so during the day I haven't had much time to goof off online.  Today I'm going to stay in the office a little longer than I need to because I need a break from my DH.  He is driving me crazy!!!! Also, we have SD today so another good reason to leave him alone with his precious!

We haven't had SD since the lockdowns started so bascially since March.  BM had excuse after excuse to keep her there "quarantined" and I was 100% on board and good with that.  The last few months without SD visits has been so much better for my health LOL!  Well of course last night was SD's bday so you don't have to quarantine when it means presents, and materail things, right?!?!? So BM finally released SD to us...YAY :/  I'm glad she is going back home today.  Of course she was overly attention hungry b/c she hadn't visited in so long and of course she wouldn't shut up about the new iphone BM got her.  BM is an idiot for that in my opinion also.  She just grounded SD from the phone for having a tik tok app that she wasn't supposed to have.  Also keep in mind this is the same SD that solicited herself to older couples on IG in sneak mode....she is ALWAYS doing stuff online she shouldn't and BM continues to just give her the phone back and now she has upgraded the phone.  Funny, SD was crying to guilable dumbass DH about how BM threw her old phone in the toilet and went off on her when she found her tik tok account (just days before her bday and buying her a new phone).  SD said BM told her to just go live with her dad and she would never amount to anything...so of course guilable delusional DH is eating this up thinking SD will want to come live with us and BM was out of control and handled SD's lying and using apps way to harshly!  WTF!?!?! First of all dumbass DH you are going on what SD 13, a KNOWN LIAR is telling you and not even communicating with BM to find out what REALLY happened.  My guess is really innappropriate overtly sexual videos she posted on tik tok....seeing as SD has been doing stuff like that since about age 7-8!??  But yeah believe SD *dash1*

Oh and of course MIL invited herself over for SD's bday and then hovered over me in the kitchen while I cooked....ugh!  Another person I need a damn break from.  MIL has come to visit multiple times even though we are still at a Shelter in Place stage in OH.  Of course DH will never tell her know and she acts as if there is no virus out there. Last night as I was cooking she literally hoovered over me and my stove.  Her face was directly above my boiling water (for spaghetti noodles) when she says, "yeah, I threw up earlier, just mucus and stuff probably b/c I haven't ate".....WTF?!?!? DH standing there tells her "um, gross you might want to back away from our food then!" and she still just effing stands their.  I think this woman is maybe the dumbest most self center minded person I have ever met.  I am growing to really hate her.  She doesn't get boundaries at all and even when you say something to her she ignores it and does what she wants.  UGH!!!!  

My step MIL is also driving me crazy and she is the only parent in my DH's life that I can normally tolerate and like.  However, she "quit smoking" because she has cancer so she just keeps dropping by our house and closet smoking so her daughters don't know :/  It makes me mad.  Why continue smoking when you have cancer and are going through chemo?  Her treatments have her in the hospital for 4 days at a time....take that time and then continue to not smoke.  I know quitting smoking is hard but damn you have a good reason to quit!!!  So yeah she comes over UNANNOUNCED which is one of my biggest pet peeves and then hangs out for hours to closet smoke on our front porch.  

Okay, that might be all I need to vent about for the moment.