BM missed her calling
She should've been a rancher. She has yet again proven herself skilled in the arts of milking her martyrdom and fleecing her community.
Schools closed. Shelter in place. C19 cases rapidly increasing along with the number of deaths. You get the picture.
BM asks SO if he "could use chocolate milk." She has, well, a(n unnecessarily ridiculously) large amount. Date is for this weekend. They are from the school. Y'know, the school that is providing curbside pick up for those in the student body facing food insecurity during the pandemic.
The woman is pushing six figures between her actual salary and CS. Never mind all of the (very significant) financial support enmeshed MIL provides.
And this pig is hoarding chocolate milk meant for elementary aged kids who rely on the school for a meal.
Why were you even there, BM? And how did you manage to amass such a collection of chocolate milk?
You selfish, inconsiderate, entitled trash. Enjoy your chocolate milk (and whatever else you've stolen out of those children's mouths), I hope you phucking choke on it.
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At least she's offering to
At least she's offering to share?
She probably somehow ripped off a whole case of it. I bet she's the person who keeps buying up all the toilet paper, too.
It's a Set-Up
Manipulative toxic narc BM over here ran that play (plus I have a former aquaintence who specialized in this con, too) so it looks pretty familiar to me. The set-up is to ingratiate you into doing future favor(s) for them.
One of the bizarre tell-tale signs is that usually, this suspicious "Free Gift" or "Random Act of Kindness" is actually something conned or stolen from other individuals/organizations (aka Marks or Victims). And/or something completely inappropriate, like suggesting you owe them plane tickets to Hawaii because they once cooked you a home-made meal. Or that you give them your 2nd car because they took you to a concert with free tickets they'd received from a friend who had a sudden family emergency and couldn't attend.
Both of these scenarios happened to me, and I observed the same offender get ALLLLLL kinds of free sh*t from various family, neighbors, co-workers, and employers. So I suspect OP's BM has her eye on a specific favor or dollar-amount or _______ and is trying to position herself to issue her upcoming demand from a power-position of: You Owe Me
My question mark was supposed
My question mark was supposed to indicate sarcasm, lol. Everything these BMs do is self-serving.
Are you sure the school didn
Are you sure the school didn't just give her extras?
That is happening here. NYC public schools are providing food for to any child/family regardless of income, need or the type of school they attend (public, charter, private or independent).
Some schools are providing grab and go breakfast and lunch. Some schools are providing grab and go breakfast, lunch and supper. A few schools have a weekly food pantry where they give families a bag or two of groceries.
The problem is people are not taking advantage of the program. So instead of tossing all of the food in the trash, the lunch ladies are giving the kids/families that do show up BAGS and BAGS of food.
The same thing is happening with the sites that DOE set up to ensure that the children of essential workers had a place to go while the parents are working. They staffed those sites with substitute teachers and substitute paraprofessionals in an effort to ensure they were still paid while schools are closed. Now it has been reported that there are way more adults than there are children at the sites.
Often times we put safety nets in place to help those in need. But for whatever reason they don't always take advantage of them.
They may have. I could
They may have. I could totally understand handing out larger quantities when approaching expiration. I wouldn't begrudge such a scenario... IF BM was actually in need of the services.
She had ZERO reason to be there. ZERO. The goods she put her grubby paws on could have gone to someone actually in need. Whether that someone was within the scope of the original intent or another donation avenue. She's done nothing but ensure those items go to waste.
The school district here is
The school district here is encouraging everyone to sign up for their free meals (breakfast and lunch). The more meals, the greater the economies of scale, and I'm sure the federal reimbursement is a set amount, so the district does better the more people who get the meals. It's open to kids birth to 18 whether they attend the school district or not.
Not to say your BM isn't being a selfish hoarder, but in some areas it's encouraged.
Homeless shelters are asking
Homeless shelters are asking for donations, she should drop it there
our school district distributes lunch and breakfast to kids every day. Handing carry out packages to families. They don't check if you are on the list. Just come get the food. I don't know what they do with excess. Did she get leftovers or something? Or she works for organization that plans to pitch that milk?
There are so many people
There are so many people actually in need near where we are located. She is not one of them. I don't think she is even aware that they exist.
She had no business being there. She's got no ties beyond the technicality of YSS being a student.
She is not active with the school, she's not friendly with anybody that is. Nobody volunteering there, nobody that works there, nobody that would legit be in need of the support that would have reached out and offered such a windfall if her stash is the result of take it before we toss it. Which, interestingly enough, is all she's capable of doing with it anyway.
She is maybe 25 miles from the poorest city in the lower 48. She doesn't have skids (we do). She's nowhere near qualifying let alone actually needing any sort of public assistance.
I can't explain (beyond my entitled trash comment) why she was there in the first place but we can skip over that part. That she was offered all of the chocolate milk in the county (/s) and took it, knowing damn well she had no use for it, as evidenced by her trying to pawn it off, is just another example of why I love her so (also /s).
Didn't matter what is was, if she had a use for it or knew of someone who did, it was free so she took it. Pretty much sums her up.
I just don't understand these
I just don't understand these people who take advantage of programs like these. My DH and I qualify for reduced lunches. Our kids get reduced lunches. But we refused the district's offer for free lunches because we have enough and we are the lucky ones who can work from home during this pandemic. We figured otnis better to leave it for those who actually need it.
Our school district
Our school district encourages everyone to use this program and we live in a very affluent area. Without enough participants, the budget for it will be cut and those who need it, won't have it. This may be the case here; we don't know for sure.