Ding Dong the Witch is Predictable.....
My husband sat down and called the wicked witch of Ohio the other night. As predicted she agreed to take SD (14), but ONLY if we agree in court to discharge the child support and owed support. We agreed. OF COURSE WE DID! We would have agreed to pay her the $5.72! We are also signing over rights. Which means we cannot be sued anymore for when she puts kids into comas!!!! We have already contacted the attorney . I feel so slimy for saying it, but good grief am I relieved! This, of course, means hurricane J will move to Ohio, and bat her little eyelashes and put on the fake, but "I'm so sweet" act (for roughly 3 or 4 months) before she rapid cycles into one of her episodes- and then the calls will start- but I will laugh every time my phone rings. You have no idea how these two deserve eachother. I think I will miss her when I think about the past, but I promise I will be ok. Thinking about her now gives me migraines. I'll let ya'll know when "Mom" calls freaking out bc SD (14) gets caught in bed with some 25 year old- or mom finds out she is prostituting. A Christmas miracle, truly.
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That sounds like as good an
That sounds like as good an outcome as could be expected for you and your DH. I'm sure you are massively relieved.
By signing over rights, do you mean that BM will have sole legal custody? I guess you'd better start praying that BM remains in good health.
Yes. Sole legal and physical
Yes. Sole legal and physical custody. He wants no connections at all. He had the lawyer put in the papers that she is only to contact us if my step daughter wishes to. My guess is Mommy will be calling A LOT. There will be no visitation or anything. It's horrible this had to come to this, it truly is. My husband deserved better than this and we did try to hang on and help her as long as we could. I'm just so relieved. It's a matter of time before something beyond terrible happens with this child. She will hurt someone or wind up putting some innocent kid in prison for rape or she will wind up addicted to something. I feel terrible saying it, but it is the truth. I think we both feel defeated and are just so emotionally exhausted. Maybe now the boys and their issues can get some much needed attention.
The door will be open if she is able to turn her life around. I predict it gets much worse before it ever gets better. It will be a long time before she comes knocking.
Bio Mom is not the greatest. She left the kids when they were all small and went on to have 4 other children. I doubt my SD gets the attention she will want there, but she hated it here so bad and acted so out of control that there really is no other option anymore. Maybe bio mom will shock us all and actually be a parent....