My SSs BM must be the most miserable person on earth.  She wants nothing more than to be nasty and PA.   Last week she got snarky with DH for missing a jr high football game.  DH was helping our dear friends whose child had just been severely injured and needed immediate modifications to their home so the child could get in the house.  She blasted DH for missing a game when DH had explained why he would be fine to YSS.  Since BM has zero friends, she wouldn’t understand what it means to help someone in need.  And the only time DH could help was during the game as they were on a time crunch.    YSS and our friends child are friends and YSS was very concerned for her so he was absolutely fine with DH helping. 

After the text exchange in which I put BM in her place (with DHs permission and speaking as him) she backed off, for a few days.  

However, just last night she had YSS call DH and have him go out and buy him a Plain T-shirt and bring it to him right away.  This was 8:45 pm.   BM refuses to go do it and insisted it was DHs responsibility even though we didn’t have YSS.    

This is just her PA way of being a arse because She was made to feel like a jerk for being upset when DH helped a friend.   BM and her SOmhave NO friends period.  Only family who they do everything with.  Two elderly parents and elderly aunts.   

She has to be the most miserable person on earth to want to try and make us miserable.  DH and I are actually very happy and never do things on purpose to make BM angry.  She doesn’t enter our minds at all until she likes at us.   

Sadly I have recently been told by the parents of YSSs classmate that none of the parents like it trust BM and her SO.  She said they are only polite to them out of wanting to avoid their cut throat behavior.  They have all seen what happens when BM and her SO target someone.  Coaches have been fired because of their  complaints and other parents made outcasts.  It’s sad. Such miserable people!