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Attorney General Paternity Result?

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Submitted by ETexasMom on Tue, 04/02/2019 - 5:28pm

Sorry if there’s typos I’m on my phone.

So I’ve posted a few times about my son’s ex girlfriend. Well they got a DNA test done from OAG and going back Friday for the results. Well she’s already cuddled back up to my son convincing him the baby is his and having him do stuff for her. Well she messages me earlier saying the OAG “basically” confirmed my son was the dad because they called her and told her that she needed to come in an hour earlier then was on the papers they recieved. Well she ask if results are in and they say yes. She takes this to mean he’s the dad because they don’t ask her any questions on other men who could be the dad and don’t cancel the meeting. 

 

Here’s the really weird part. My son has not been called and told to come earlier like she was. She says they didn’t call because she told them she would tell him. 

So here’s my thought

1. They never called her she’s just wanting to claim more “proof” he’s the dad.

2. He’s not the dad and they having her come early to tell them seperately.

3. OAG is really slacking on notifying parents of  mediation times.

Anyone have experience with OAG paternity test? 

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STaround's picture

Submitted by STaround on Tue, 04/02/2019 - 5:59pm

But I would have thought if he was ruled out, they would have just sent him a letter, not asked him to come in.  

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Submitted by ProbablyAlready... on Wed, 04/03/2019 - 7:41am

From what I'm reading, they had a pre-designated time before knowing the results?

So seperate to me means that they're giving the news seperately since they already had a time for him to come in.

I'm guessing he's probably not the dad... But keep us updated OP!

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Submitted by SteppedOut on Tue, 04/02/2019 - 6:16pm

Yikes! 

Hope it turns out your son can escape the crazy that this woman sounds.. 

Why did he not do the at home test for faster results?

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Submitted by Monkeysee on Wed, 04/03/2019 - 4:59am

No experience either but I hope he doesn't take her word for anything & get his info directly from the OAG itself. She sounds nuts.

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Submitted by tog redux on Wed, 04/03/2019 - 5:35am

No, but it sounds just like the crazy games BM here likes to play.  He'll just have to be patient and see proof of the results.  They may have called her in an hour early because it's negative and they need more names of possible fathers from her!

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Submitted by Thumper on Wed, 04/03/2019 - 9:50am

OAG office would NOT or should not give the ok for BM to inform your son about anything. They are seperate parties in this case.

You must be on pins and needles. Please keep us posted.  As noted above I would have your son call their office.

 

 

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Submitted by Maxwell09 on Wed, 04/03/2019 - 2:37pm

He (you if he’s a minor) needs to call up there and ask why there’s separate times given. It could be anything really so I wouldn’t rule him out for being the dad. They might want her early to do paperwork on child support if he is the dad or they might want her early in case he’s not the dad and might flip out. It could be just one of those things they do like when you’re in the hospital/ER and they ask you questions without anyone else around to ask about abuse and a safe place to live. I always thought it was weird they made my DH step out to ask that as I was going into labor...like of all things to worry about right this second! OP try to call and not stress about it  

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Submitted by still learning on Wed, 04/03/2019 - 4:41pm

Your son should definitely not take this womans word about anything. He needs to see and hear the results for himself.  I sincerely hope they tell him, "You are NOT the father!" and he, you and the rest of the family can move forward.