Yes - my SS19 looks just like BM.  If he didn't have the same genetic illness that DH has, I'd doubt paternity.  He's 8 inches taller than DH and again, looks exactly like BM. I've always found him a bit repulsive, even though, honestly, we get along fine and he's not at all disrespectful to me.

My SD27 is not ugly, she just has NO personality. None. At all.

She is lucky that she doesn't look like BM. Her older brother does (not DH's kid) and oh, man, is he ugly.

Lol I love that you googled douche bag face!!! Hysterical!

I also totally get where you are coming from. I have been told by people that SD is stunning, and gorgeous, and should be a model.

Personally when I look at her I don't see any of that, but that's also because I know her personally and once you get to know her it sours the whole picture.

I don't think their outward appearance is ugly but SS13 personality certainly is. He definitely looks like he has a chromosomal disorder though. Since the kids won't be coming back I won't get to hear how the genetic testing he was supposed to be getting turned out. He does do this smug look on his face that I can't stand.

Twin SDs are cute but look sickly. I have seen other twins of same age that look more mature and have a brighter appearance.

YSS10. So. Not. Cute. Acts like hes so cute and because hes the baby everyone was...hes so cute & funny. Maybe when he was 2. Not cute amymore just obnoxious. Most people dont like him besides daddeeee and nana

SD16 is very average and pretty chunky but the money she spends on beauty products is ridiculous and the bikini should be traded in for something that covers her properly esp on facebook.

SD19 is way overweight/obese but she is kind & beautiful on the inside. Her slightly chunky sister calls her a fat ass if SD19 doesnt follow SD16s every command. SD19 has very low self esteem & it's a shame cuz she is funny & likable.

SS12 is actually cute. He has adhd and hes impulsive & obnoxious and quite awkward. Takes away from the cuteness.

Can you tell im not happy with the skids right now?

Well my DH is bull legged and my skids mom is knock-kneed, so the ss's got the bull legs and the sd's got the knock-knees.  I get reminded of BM whenever I see my SDs in a dress.  opposites attract i guess haha!  my legs are straight btw

SD18 looks A LOT like BM which isn't saying much. Even if she was attractive I think I would be pretty comfortable admitting she was pretty. There's so much history with SD at this point I really can't find anything good to say about her, even her looks. 

She's "Okay". Thats about it.

I cannot get passed PigPen's greasy hair.

This is a tale of two children... They may be brother and sister but they are nothing alike.

SS18 is a good looking boy - definitely favours father's side of the family. What makes him more engaging is his personality and manners. He is an all round good kid (now!).

Ex-SD (22) ... When she was around 17 /18, I would say she was a pretty girl. Not beautiful, not attractive, but pretty in a country girl wholesome kind of way. That is how she LOOKED. Personality is a whole different story. 
Now?? OMG!! 
She looks like something my cat won't drag in... She looks terrible!! This can be put down to her smoking, heavy drinking, drug use... She is badly overweight and her face is puffy. Her facial skin is terrible and her shoulder length beetroot red hair looks fried, dirty and dry.  She is very unkept. 
Every time I see/saw her, I had an inclination to throw her in a bath and scrub her - even though I know not to touch her without double gloves and a bottle of anti-septic!   She is gross looking and turns my stomach... What is even worse, she has a vile personality to match her looks. This girl is the most incorrigible delinquent  I have had the misfortune to encounter. She is 22 - she looks about 35 - all hagard and worn out. 

In general, I  don't particularly pay attention to what people look like, as I don't deem physical appearance important,  but SD has recreated her own looks to match her disgusting personality. The outside matches the inside now - and both are grossly terrible.

I think my SS’s are adorable, I see a lot of DH in them both & I love their personalities (most of the time lol)

DH’s daughter.. I used to think she was very pretty, but ever since her & her mother’s little stunt for money & seeing how much she hurt DH, I don’t find her attractive in the slightest. She could be a model or have everyone fawning over her & I would still find her ugly. 

Unforunately for my FSD, she has her mother's body. She has a decently cute face, but she is so straight and has no knee or ankle - its just like straight trunk and not very big hipped so it looks kind of funny. At 13, she is already larger than me in the lower region, which isn't saying much because I'm shaped like a 12 year old boy (I wear a 25) but at least she has a cute face. Them tree trunks tho, they are only going to get worse smh

Lol...when I first met my SD I thought she was really homely. Huge head and wide flat face. Weird sickly grayish skin tone and buscemi eyes. Looks alot like uncle fester. I actually got used to her face and dont really notice anymore but if I stop and think about it shes still not real cute. Definitely isn't a bias though because alot of other people have commented that she isn't very cute. Most people say nothing and almost no one has ever awed over her or her baby pics. One of my friends described her as a kid that looks like she gets fed nothing but funions lol. His nieces on the other hand everyone right away goes omg they're so cute. The thing that freaks me out more is her facial expressions. Most pictures she either has Charles Manson style crazy eyes or else looks like shes stoned out of her mind. 

Look ugly? No. Look and smell impoverished (as in stereotypical poor)? Yes.

They smell like they don't bathe with soap, and they look it, too. Clothes are ratty, stained, and torn. Neither SS shaves regularly, leaving YSS with a unibrow, and OSS has awful acne that I refuse to buy medicine for if he won't use it.

BM looks and smells much the same. It drives me NUTS with the SSs, though, because we buy them clothes and shoes. And haircuts. And soap and deodorant, even for BM's. I know part of it is puberty, but part of it is also just taking no care in themselves.

My boyfriend's oldest daughter the 12.5 year old is cuteish. When I first met her when she was 7 I was kind of surprised she was awkward looking because her father is good looking and her mom is cute. She looks a lot like my boyfriend, but her features are sort of masculine .She is still not pretty though imo. The second daughter the almost 11 year old is adorable. She's tiny like her mom and her face is very cute. Looks like her mom's twin. I think she'll be attractive as an adult. 

His two boys are 7 and 9 and fairly cute. The older of the two ( looks like Dad) is slightly more attractive thus far. The 7 year old's face is kind of elongated, but not too bad. Looks a lot like his mom imo although everyone thinks he is bfs twin. 

The youngest two have a different mom. The 5.5 year old isn't very pretty. imo. She looks exactly like the mom who is pretty sometimes but also super odd looking at the same time so that's how I feel about the kid. The 3 year old boy is gorgeous. I thought that from when he was a baby from the pictures I saw.

Killjoy14 pouted so much for so long, her face froze that way, and all I see now and forever is her poopy pouty face, like a toddler in need of its binky. 

DH was cute when I met him, but over time I've come to realize he's the most handsome man on earth. 

Personality is everything.

My SD's are not ugy at all, but since they look like their mother, their looks are of no consequence to me. I never understood my husband's attraction to their mother because she's nothing special to look at. She let herself go pretty early on and now she has decided that she's a lesbian. I could care less because people have a right to be whatever they want to be, but it has been confusing for my SD's. On the other hand, my daughter has been complimented for her beauty multiple times by random people, even when she was a little girl. My husband could not stand it because his daughters were not told they were pretty. He resented my daughter for it and even made deragotory comments to her about trying to get attention, etc. Sad.

My SO's daughters are clearly a mix of SO and BM. I think SO is quite handsome, BM is a very attractive woman, and their daughters are very pretty.  They have nice personalities (still young!) and are mostly good kids, but on days when they act up, they're lucky they're so cute.

I know a few people who are objectively good looking that I find to be unattractive because of their miserable personalities, so I know where a lot of you are coming from.

My SDs both are very pretty. Unfortunately one (the troubled one) is covered with tattoos. Including facial tattoo. It’s kind  of scary. My normal not troubled SD likes to do duck face lol  but they are both beautiful. 

Inherited the worst traits from both parents

They have the Girhippo's plain jane features and they have Chef's lack of bone structure and lips.  All three are gargantuan.   The only way I could describe them is huge pale blobs.  SD20 looks most like Chef.   The boys look like clones of the Girhippo. I think redheads are cute (think Opie Taylor)  but Chef's sons are the ugliest gingers I've ever seen.

OSS22 looks like an old woman wearing a babushka.  YSS16 is particularly homely with a face only a mother could love; he also has a giant beak.  Urine-coloured hair.  At least OSS's hair is a nice brick red.

On the other hand, Chef's oldest half brother's son ( who is gorgeous and has a movie star /rockstar look)  has gorgeous children in particular the youngest daughter.  Of course she is tatted up and messed up; also had a kid at age 18.

Neither SS really looks like DH. One sort of walks like DH, but that is the only resemblance.

Neither look that much like BM, either. They both sort of look like BM’s parents, which is unfortunate to say the least. One has very pale eyebrows, which make him look like he has no eyebrows.

They are also in middle school now, so entering the awkward phase. They are also both pretty manipulative, so that colors my perception of both of them.

It’s really unfortunate that neither looks like DH. He had such a sweet face as a baby and young child. He still has a face that is handsome and manly looking, but also retains a sweetness that highlights his genuine and generous personality.

BM on the other hand has snaggle teeth, one of her front teeth is slightly brown, and is rather dumpy looking. She has always looked at least 10 years older than her actual age. She usually looks pale and tired, with poorly dyed hair. 

BM’s mother - whom one of my SSs resembles - looks slightly rat-like with beady eyes and a large bulbous nose. BM’s father - whom the other SS resembles - looks like a big doofus. He has a moon face that complements his completely squat and square body and always has a half grin on his face that makes him look like a complete idiot, which he appears to be.

SS16 looks just like his incubator and her brothers.  Her brothers are nice, met them and have no idea what happened to their sister.  Biggest waste of human on the planet.  SS has far too big of a nose and is just the most awkward thing.  Has the personality of a dish towel that is lazy, loves to steal and hide garbage food and waste away on a gaming chair 24/7 playing video games.

So it's probably not the looks so much as (lack of) personality and decency.  Looks just don't help.

hubby is handsome to me, his family have quite strong facial bone features as in the chiseled chin and high cheekbones but small jawline for alot of them so they often have cramped teeth. Alot of the women have this and it looks quite harsh but his 3 kids with ex, well sd22 looks exactly like bio mum, she’s a normal brown coloured skin but as hubby is asian, theres this fascination when you’re brown to use foundation 10 shades lighter to make you look caucasian- thats just stupid because it means you don’t accept what you were born with and when your hands are 10 shades darker than your face, it just looks weird.

ss20 loves to spoil pics where we are all sitting nice especially for holidays all dressed up but then he uncollars his top showing a tshirt underneath or he leans forward and it just looks out of place. Or he takes pic with a mouth full of food. He doesn’t look like hubby because his face shape, jawline and looks don’t resemble hubby, looks like similar to mum. He also fidgets like crazy and always acts like he has the sniffles in front of people and its so rude. My dad once said he looks nothing like hubby, i don’t even wanna go there because hubby knew his exwife was seeing other people while still married to him just before divorce so god knows if this goes way back and ss isn’t his, hubby would be heartbroken but he would cut him off in a heartbeat i think, because he’s had enough of his bullshit..

Sd13 has quite a harsh jawline so she never smiles with teeth so she has this awkward looking underbite and don’t get me going about those stupid peace sign symbols. When you’re dressed up in formal evening wear, posing with the stupid peace ✌️ symbol f*#ks up a picture completely

my 2 kids have the chiseled chin which hubby has and my chin sticks out too but hubby and me are both oval shaped and our kids do look like an amazing mix because theres about 12 ethnicities in their generic makeup so it really shows through.

I feel uncomfortable and almost angry at judging people by their looks. We are all born with faults and calling someone ugly for how they look is cruel.

Judge someone by their character, not how they look.

My daughter had health issues. I'm sure people thought she was ugly when she was the sweetest child. In fact she was teased in school for it. No one deserves to be thought of like that.

Parents should teach their kids not to judge by appearances.

I think that fashion and hygiene are factors.  I teach HS and see a lot of kids who almost deliberately try to look bad.

OSS looks a lot like DH so, no, I don't think he's ugly. But man, between the terrible hygiene and s*&^%$y personality, yeah, he's super gross. It's a shame.

YSS used to be a cutie, actually. Again, it's a shame he was so ugly on the inside. He always had a scowl on his face. I have no idea what he looks like now. He's probably dirty though.