So, here we are a week from scheduled visitation and still no agreement reached. 

It is frustrating because we feel like our attorney isn't notifying us when they receive correspondence. We are having to reach out every time, which who knows how much this has delayed the process. 

Then my MIL was talking to OSD and apparently BM has already told them the whole plan without discussing any dates with us. Then apparently even though we are responsible for booking the returning flight, we are giving the girls to her family and accomadating that after our visit. Mind you we have already purchased the tickets by the CO because of the situation.  

So, I text BM to make her aware of the dates within the CO. Of course she manipulates it to work for her. Then because I am not saying something that works for her she requests to only speak to DH. Funny because she talked to me about the visitation previously and I said it would be best to wait for an agreement because she was wanting to alter from CO. This was all in a group text anyways too.

We ended up just booking the flights because we didn't want to book the tickets a week before with Holiday ticket pricing and a really good deal popped up for the day needed. 

I guess the good thing is my husband immediately responded with we are team and it is concerning both of us. And honestly I texted intially because confrontation was expected and he currently has an ulcer from this BS stress already.