I am hoping to find a place of support and advice here!! When issues come up with my Step-son!!! I feel vet isolated and alone on any issue that comes up!! 

For example right now my step-sons mom it going around telling everyone I am spying on him because for some reason a text message his little sister sent to his iPhone came to my iPhone!! I had no idea who it was and when I found out it was her I had my husband call his son right away because I have never gotten his messages before!! Bio mom text my husband the next day going crazy about it and no matter what my husband said she wouldn’t listen that we didn’t know what was going on!! He even sent her the text of me saying I have no idea what going on but I got this message from step-sons sister on my phone and was to go to step-son!! 

My husband is stuck because if he sticks up for me she spins it as he picks me over his son and if he says nothing then it’s he thinks i am wrong and he agrees with her!!