So... Tuesday BM text DH and told him "This is BM, SS says he wants to see me, Mothers Day is Sunday and you need to make this happen". 

BM hasn't contact DH in well over a year. Maybe 2. So he responded like any arrogant turd would (and I was ok with it LOL) "Who is this". She didn't freak out.. but responded with "what do you mean  who is this? I told you in the beginning of my first text, we need to make Mothers Day happen". DH said we are out of town this weekend. If SS wants to see you he can talk to me about it, but it still needs to be with your dad, nothing has changed there". 

A few days pass and she text DH again "I am really sad I don't get to see SS on Mothers Day, you need to make this happen". DH responded "who is this?". She replied "BM". He said "BM who?". That was the end of that conversation. 

Saturday morning BM texts the same thing... but follows it up with "stop with the who is this game, you are not funny". DH says, I told you a few days ago we are out of town. If he wants to see you he will have to talk to me about it and we will arrange it with your dad. But don't you come at me with demands 3 days before "mothers day" it doesn't work that way". She got angry. She told him that it's OUR fault SS doesn't want her around and she has been asking to go to his games but he keeps telling her no. She said it's because he's afraid of us being in the same place at the same time. Which MAY be true, but it wouldn't be because of us. It would be 100% her. She has told him in the past that she is going to stand up in the stands and make SURE everyone knows SHE is his mom since everyone thinks I am. She has told him that she is going to kick my ass in the parking lot... and, she has gotten in LOUD argument with her dad at one of his games. Geeeeeee do we think maybe THAT's why? Not to mention he is almost 15, and she is toothless and covered in sores and scars. Maybe JUST maybe he's embarassed of you. 

Anyway, DH stood his ground. She told him he is violating a court order and she is taking him back to court. Ummmm... no, we aren't. But even if the original court order were vaild, SHE has been violating it for YEARS by NOT seeing him on her days, and what does she expect that we don't make any plans on "her days" if by some strange chance she showed up? For 2 1/2 years? I don't think so... and he told her all of that. She still stands firm that she is taking us back to court because she says we are keeping SS "at bay". Whatever. Take us to court. I would LOVE to hear what the judge will say this time since you NEVER WENT TO REHAB! 

SS didn't call her on Mothers Day until after 9 pm. I told him to call her at 9 AM. He waited. That's his decision. 

On a better note, we went to the river. The weather was perfect, and my weekend was amazing. And... it's 2 days later, we have not been served for court. LOL!