That' the thing BM is so obsessed with partying and being trashy (all these dui*s* and drunken accidents and still no ankle bracelt or anything!) That it doesn't matter to her who has the kid as long as it' not her. And he can never go home in mornings it always has to be at least two thirty pm before she even considers taking him back (wtf man) I understand she needs a break but my dh NEEDS to work. 

And he's going to be even more of a hassle when he realizes we did not buy him a new Nintendo switch, because that was an other point I brought up in our fight...my point in that was both our child together and his child broke something very expensive to replace,only my child who doesn't know any better as he is still learning got punished. And I simply said since his child does know better and was told repeaedly  to be careful while playing and not jumping up and down on my bed while playing it, he should have to suffer the consequences for not listening and openly doing the opposite of what he was told.