Half way through the weekend. Quite happy with how last evening went. I didn't flip out over things (wanted to but didn't) DH actually corrected YSS speech before I did. I had no problems saying "don't hit" to YSS when he smacked YBS in the arm. No problem saying "you play with hers" to YSS when he was whining that the baby was messing with his toys and DH even BACKED me. Talk about an OMG moment. When he asked if he could go play video games I simply turned to my DH and said "can he pick up his toys in here first?" calmly. I didn't flip out when I heard DH took him to the store again and bought another toy. Didn't flip out when he picked the baby up to move her when she, once again, tried to get his toys. Let DH handle it. I handled YBS and his drama, cleaned up the kitchen, got him a cheap game for the computer (yeah that one was a little spiteful, figured DH doesn't have a problem getting something for YSS EOW and I am supposed to fine with it, I can do what I want too). Just need to make it through tonight and I am home free....