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So pissed right now I'm going to be sick. It does not mater that last week SS12 lied and told his mother that I hit him.He has yet to tell the truth or apologize for the lie. And I'm still forced to cook and clean up after DH's offspring every other weekend as if nothing has happened. I don't even hit my own child. but I'm getting ahead of my self, It would help if I start over. Last Friday as I was on my way home, enjoying the drive and reflecting on what had been a really good work week and what promised to be an equally good weekend. I get a call from DH. asking me if I had in fact slammed SS12's finger's in the lap top and shoved ear bud's into his chest "very hard"? of course I denied it (It never happened) so now in tear's I rush home to tell my side of the story. which was Fck that I'm sick of the BS. I was pissed this had not been the first time SS12 has lied on me. and it was not the first time he had gotten away with it. Dear precious SS11 could and would never lie. so I forced DH to see my side. but was anything done? Nope, not a damn thing. Turn's out DH had told SK's to skip a weekend with us to give me and SS12 some space, we had been fighting about the fact that SS12 refused to clean up after him self and was a disrespectful little snot rag.So to keep him self out of hot water with his mother he lied. It's strange, if someone had of put there hand's on my child I would have come unglued. like really. gone black girl crazy on them. and yet hear this kid is sitting his chunky lazy ass on my sofa, eating my home cooking and playing on the Xbox he does not deserve.I don't understand what kind of mother would just drop her kid off at a home where the ppl in it are abusing him?call me crazy but if it where my kid I would have called the cop's kicked someones ass or something. but nope she just drops him off on the door step and takes off. that just tells me she knows he full of BS and just cant be bothered to parent him and his father is no better. My DH thinks if you don't talk about it nothing's wrong and we can all just be one happy bi-racial mixed family. as long as im cooking his meal's cleaning up after him and his kid's and making his sweet tea all is right with the world. well Im sick of it and I don't know what to do anymore.
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sueu2, You make a lot of good
sueu2, You make a lot of good point's and I do have many many choices. The problem is what is the right one. you dont know me or my life. just this one post and you choose to judge me very harshly for that,but this is a place I can come too to vent when Im upset, is that so wrong? and if it is then what the hell are you doing here? I dont have all the answer's but apparently nether do you. Did you pack up and run when thing's got hard at home? Or are you still working thing's out with your family? For me giving up on SS12 would be cruel. He need's someone in his life that gives a fuck about him.To teach him wrong from right and no it may not be my job but if this kid is in my life and in my home and Im apart of his world then yes I have to take that into account. I never stated that I did not love SS12, I do. He can be a very sweet boy and I have been with him from age 5. then there is my own child to think about, who has only known DH as her father. but anyways you don't know me so do not put me in the category of "Oh she has daddy issues." but even if I do does that mean I should just give up? or should I try to work thing's out with my DH and SS12. I chooses to work on my Marriage and my home life as best I can and continue to come here to Bitch complain moan and what ever the hell I want. and if you dont like it then that fine.