Very annoyed right now. My DH has been planning a trip with this friends for quite some time now. There is about 8 of them going so they had to coordinate schedules. I have no problem with him going on this trip. My ONLY request to him was that it was on a week that we don’t have all 4 kids. (We have my 2 SSs every other week, Friday-Friday) He has been talking about the trip for a while and every time he brings it up I remind him not to leave me here with all 4. I’m already overwhelmed on the weeks they are here even with my DH around. He does help out a lot around the house, but still… it’s still overwhelming. More cooking, cleaning, laundry, pick up and drop off to sports. You know the drill. Well DH comes home last night and tells me to get out my calendar so that he can let me know the date of the trip. He’ll be gone for 5 days. So he tells me the date and I just stare at the calendar then stare at him. Surprise surprise, it’s on a week we have all four. I’m pissed. He tries to justify it by telling me this is the only date that works for everybody. I tell him “Hold up, this doesn’t work for you because it doesn’t work for me!” All he says is “Sorry”. What.. the …fuck. So apparently my feelings mean nothing. He does not care that I will be overwhelmed. He says that he will give me $ so that I can get take out every night to help relieve some of the stress…. Gee thanks. I told him that he needs to call BM and tell her that she’s keeping the kids. Let’s think about this. SHE doesn’t have her kids, HE doesn’t have his kids…. I have their kids. Um.. no. Now I am the super bitch and he’s trying to guilt trip me and make it out like I don’t love his kids or that I’m not willing to do a favor for him. I don’t understand this mentality. I was perfectly clear about the schedule, he totally ignores what I said, but I’m the bitch?