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Submitted by purpledaisies on Sat, 04/14/2012 - 3:04pm

yuck doesn;t work and has NO income to file taxes and hasn't for years. So we offered to claim the boys and give her half of what they would get. NOPE she wants half of the whole thing we said no then she said NO you can't.

I am speechless, who doesn't want money and quite a bit I might add??? then she blames the whole thing on stress and that she might be preggo and went on and on about how she f'd up and needs prayer. :jawdrop:

Dh just said ok then it is a no and have a good day. Yuck then texts dh top say that she probably isn't preggo but it is just stress having to moving. Ok what ever it is stressful to move but come on that stressful??? To the point you are late and that late I might add? :?

First like we really care weather she is preggo or not or that she is stressing herself out that much I mean really she has 3 BIG boys to help her. Plus it's not like she doesn't have her aunt and uncle doing everything anyway. It is THEIR house she is moving into!

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building steam's picture

Submitted by building steam on Sun, 04/15/2012 - 9:06am

If she hasnt had an income if she filed it wouldnt give her a refund anyway she didnt pay in anything. You have to pay in in order to expect a refund.
Who told you that she had to sign does she have full guardianship. If not I dont see why she has to sign anything if its half and half guardianship then he should be able to claim at least one or two of the kids if not all three with her not filling.
I would find out why he hasnt been able to claim some of the kids any way. Lots of times if there is more than one child each parent claims one in Okla that is.

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Sat, 04/14/2012 - 3:38pm

We just got back and she said she would get it in writing. Maybe she meant to just make sure it is in writing and not that we have to have it in writing but i took it that way.. Wink

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Sat, 04/14/2012 - 3:56pm

Thank you ladies so much..here is the thing that I'm struggling with though if we do claim them I would feel she should get some of that but if we give it to her she will know we filed. But I don;t feel right keeping it all. Does that make sense?

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Submitted by caregiver1127 on Sun, 04/15/2012 - 8:44am

Oh Purple just take the money - you guys worked - she didn't you paid CS and she collected it - you paid taxes on that CS and she does not have to claim the child support money that she got from you - I am not seeing a problem here - just claim them and end it - don't tell her because then you are just starting trouble that is not necessary.

I am not even sure why you feel the need to give her half of the money - don't you give her a check every month so I would say you are giving her money - and no she does not need to sign anything for the IRS.

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Submitted by building steam on Sun, 04/15/2012 - 9:14am

Okay if it would help you to feel you are not doing something behind her back. Since it is the kids you are claiming and you feel you need to give the money to someone give it to the kids put it in a college fund and all is fair they are the ones being claimed not the BM so put it in a fund and be done with it. Also that way if she does come back on you in years you have proof of were the money went. lol she cant fight that RIGHT!!!!