SS15 will be charged with a minor. Probation officer said that this isn't a violation of his probation but a new offense. He can still go to his mom's and jurisdiction will be transfered to her state and they will have to deal with it there.

I've told DH we are buying the plane ticket for early next week (he finishes his community service Monday).

He hasn't talked to BM about it yet. I think since we are offering to pay, she'll take him up on the offer. DH has to move on this fast after work this evening because the flight isn't cheap and will get more expensive I'm sure tomorrow.

I feel horrible in that I just want this kid gone and ASAP, but I don't really care, it is what it is. And I've come to terms with being willing to PAY for him to leave ASAP. Say a prayer his mom will be fine with it and we can get this arranged TONIGHT.