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babyallen's picture

Shes been texting fdh all day which is annoying, called me by my full name which we asked her not to do. Then hours later after we got her to understand she text the children need to call her an appropriate title, they chose to call her by name when they were in states care we have the paperwork to prove it. Their therapist says what they are comfortable with is how it needs to be. They determand I was mommy on visit 3 I was told to let them because it is their comfort level I need to worry about. She is now rant she went threw the pregnancy she gets the title. I'm just the money person the one who makes sure when she wasn't around that they had EVERYTHING they wanted or needed. I'm the one that did whatever it took to get them out of foster care that she got them put in

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skylarksms's picture

Maybe you should bring it up to your FDH that she is taking too much time away from you and the skids. He needs to quit responding to her every text. (She will get worse before she gets a clue).

He needs to send something saying, "I am going to quit responding to every text you send. If you have a question or need something important pertaining to the children, I will wait and respond in the evening" (or whenever)

He needs to set this boundary for BM or she will continue to do this ALWAYS.

asheeha's picture

bm would call over and over and over again until dh would pick up. he finally told her if she called to leave a message or text him what she needed to say and he'd get back to her when it was convenient for him.

she got the message.

babyallen's picture

Oh this is too funny she is now sAying "her babies"(they hate being called babies) tell her we call her by her name, that's what they want to call her and have since they were 2! We haven't told her of her faults and we refrain from saying anything bad around them about her so I will do as she so rudely requested and call her mother to them. Also she can't be bother to call "her babies" but will grip @ fdh now I'm turning off his phone to let her explode his phone while we watch a movie