Poor kids! You are doing the right thing for them, and they are lucky to have you.

Our Bm hasn't talk to SS in 3 months. BM has always had sv and her mother use to supervise the visit and when GM stop. BM just quite trying. Bm sayes its not in SS best interest to be supervised and Bm doesn't want her conversation with SS monitiored. Thats just a excuse to not try. Bm is on drugs really bad right now and has warrants. Thats why she really won't go. I agree that Bm's all over are just dropping out of their kids lifes. I could make a list of some that I know. They always say the words but never back them up with actions.

Our bm recently took off as well. Ss hasnt seen or heard from her in 6 months, though she has twice called dh after ss's bedtime to tell him some really outlandish things. Before she dissapeared this time, BM wasn't what you would call "involved" in any way, shape, or form, but she did see ss occasionally and even went for about a year where she got him almost every other weekend. We haven't figured her out either, but it sure has been calmer since she's been out of the picture. We have a running debate about if or when and how she'll re-appear. She does not seem to see anything wrong with her behaviour either, in fact, about three times a year she informs us that she is going to take us to court for custody. There is a word for that: delusional.