So Thanksgiving went well as I said before...This weekend however!!!! NOT!!! So we have the princess SD16 for the weekend. She had a dance on friday to go to which was great. Didnt have to deal with anything. But our plans for the weekend were to get our Christmas tree and decorate it as a family since my oldest son was home from college. So Sat was going to be a decorate the house day, get the tree, let it open up and Sunday decorate before my son had to return to college. Think this all happened, of course not....She decided she didnt want to decorate the tree, or help with the house decoration this weekend. So dad said I'll get her next Sunday from her mom and we can do it then (thats she wants to do)....AHHHHH NO my oldest will be back at college, my youngest will be with his dad and they already have plans I cant get him in such short notice. So my children being the manored ones say mom its OK we will decorate the house with you that will be fine. So my husband says oh good....I'll talk to her mom were all set... NO WERE NOT!!!! are you #$%&^ kidding me.... Just because she doesnt want to do it this weekend....and to boot Sat when she woke up at 1 she was like "why are you decorating I want to do it next weekend... Yayy I laughed and said sorry I am decorating the house with my boys, the tree will be next sunday but next holiday it will be when were all together. Then she says well i dont care whenever is fine....OMG!!!!!!! Usually I would of made a bigger deal of it....But was having such a wonderful week with my oldest home I didn't want anything to mess it up....Now to find out a little while ago once again BM has switched our days, once again (a weekly thing) and we have her once again today when she was supposed to be with her mom...(my husband has custody) YAYYY ME.. and I had to pick her up from school because she was sick....I drop her off home so i can get back to work and she says can you pick me up McDonalds for lunch...She came home for vomiting.....UGGGG she does this all the time so when i get home there will be dishes everywhere, my house upside down....I just want to scream(I am a PA so work crazy hours)...Then her father calls me at his lunch time to tell me she is feeling better my sister got her mcdonalds...OK who sees an issue here...If she came home with vomiting and was actually sick who would eat junk food....Its so aggravating