it went very well. The boy was playing and talking and talked to us and my son. The 10 yr apologized again for the things she said to son. I told hugged her and told her not to worry about that and to put it out of her head. The mom was so sweet and asked son he was doing. It was very emotional for all of us. We talked about counseling and other things and how to get past it and also defusing others that have talked crap about son. She has been so strong and has been telling everyone to leave son alone that it was an accident and that he is too young for that crap. I thought I was going to ball like a baby.

They have 6 kids and he is the youngest. He is so cute and was being silly like all 6 yrs.

It was a good visit and I told them that if they need anything to please call me and let me know. She said the same.

Only thing was that the boys were with us when this happened, we wasn't going to tell them about what happened as bm is a bitch and she has it in for my son. But we had to sit them down and talk to them about it and explain the whole thing and to not volunteer the info to bm. However if she asks do not lie and do not hide it. They understood b/c ss15 said I know and I don't understand why bm hates son so much.

So anyway it went very well so glad it did.