just got through with court. DH's child support went up another $150 (800 now) and he wasn't able to sign his rights to his "daughter" away because they haven't decided if her SF is going to adopt her. He won't. DH doesn't see the point in giving her up if he's still going to be financially responsible for her. Of course, as it stands he can't see her thanks to the lies she told, and he's still financially responsible for her. This whole thing was about MONEY. BM finally had her fill of fun after we raised the kids for 3 years, now she figures it's time to play mom since her kids are old enough to take care of themselves. DH only gets SS every other weekend for 4 hours, because he has CPS convinced he is afraid of me. So, until the counselor (who he sees with his mother in the room) approves it i can't see him. That's ok though - with all the accusations out there, it's probably for the best.