OH F!!! Is it Friday already???
UGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHH!!
Im just realllllly NOT in the mood to DEAL with SD13's Total mind blowing BS for 2 days!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! DH works 12 hr shifts and will work this week end.............UGH!!!!!!! SKANK OVERLOAD!!!!!
Am I wrong to just want to crawl under a rock and not come out during the L~O~N~G hours I have to deal with SD?????????
I have a family party to go to and my bio's have plans.....leaving SD to go with me.......I cant even think of stomaching the hour long ride each way with SD not speaking/pouting/nasty looks...BUT watching SD laugh and talk her head off to MY family like she is just the sweetest thing on EARTH when we get there!!!!!!!
I just wish there was a magic camera to capture ALL the nasty behavior that Skids DEAL out.....and we StepParents could whip out a magic TV and play this for ALL to see.......What you wanna bet this kind of StepParent ABUSE would change in a friggin heart beat??????
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Maybe you need nannycams for
Maybe you need nannycams for when your husband isn't there, My friend had a mil who came into her house whe she wasn't home and would go through all her stuff but her husband wouldn't believe it. So she installed nanny cams and caught her mil red handed and suprise caught her sil there to. So you could put them up in rooms where the two of you would be together and just turn them on when you husband isnt' there catch the bad behavior and show him if he won't believe you.
Good Idea! I would just die
Good Idea! I would just die if SIL or MIL came in my house and did that! Wouldnt put it past them tho...nor DH not believing me about it.......Im used to bing doubted....EVERYTHING is MY fault (Im the wicked mean step mom arent I??) lol!!
you can even get camera's
you can even get camera's small enough to go in to a flower you'd pin to your jacket or blouse. Or a pen camera. My husband has little camera's because he is a Police Officer and my father has them to because he is in Security. Being in America you could get your hands on them so easy, that where we buy some of them from. Just remember though, people around you would probably know she isn't as sweet as she would like to make out to them, she is a teenager so we all know what they are like and the fact that your her step mother..... gee just put two and two together. SD6 tried that rubbish with me and people came to realise that she was not the sweet little girl when it was just us two but things are getting better.
hope this helps.
One thing I did do which you may be able to use is, before we got to someones house and if she has been a little poo head I would say to the person we are seeing..... be careful of SD, she has been really rude to me today on our way here... not sure what her problem is but please make sure she is not rewarded for this behaviour. Don't say it nasty or you will come off as the cow lol.
My friends and family would get up her and tell her she isn't to treat me like that and she was soon put in her place.
We already have plans to have
We already have plans to have a hidden camera trained on the front door when the Skids are old enough to walk home from school and let themselves in because then BM will be picking them up here when nobody else is home. And we don't trust her one little bit, we could just see her coming in and she is NOT WELCOME.
It sucks to have your house open to INTRUDERS and enemies (because that's what BM is to us) when you are not home because of Skids!!
So yeah we are all over the whole hidden cam thing too when the time comes.
Thank goodness for technology.
Yep Looking at the cameras
Yep Looking at the cameras now! prob is DH has seen with his very own eyes SD13 be a rude lying brat!!!!!!! Just makes me sick!
Im sticking up for my self and even got DH to say "oh you are right that is just what she is doing" when he came home tonight and SD had a line of crapppppppppppp to cry to her DOD about!!!! I WIN! Now IF SD got hers handed to her it would have been perfect!!!!!