Here in AK you can pay through CSSD so you have record of it. What a bitch! Geez!

Ooh, what about going to your bank and getting a cashier's check since that way it'll have already come out of your account?

Our BM has started doing the exact same thing. I think I am going to give her a money order next time that way it come out of our account immediately and I think she will only have so many days to cash the money order.

My husband's x did this with his reimbursement checks for unreimbursed medical and dental expenses and with school tuition. It drove me insane because I never could completely reconcile my check book. What we did was to send her money orders for the reimbursement checks and sent the school tuition directly to the school.

Call your county clerk's office domestic division. They can tell you how to get this done.

I would be tempted to seal an empty envelope. Re-open it, making sure there is a little tear to show it has been tampered with. Put the following note in the envelope.
--------------------------------
Dear BM,

In interest of being able to balance our checkbook, we have decided to start
sending cash. Included in this envelope is Blah Blah amount for Blah Blah expenses.
Please let us know when you have received this.

Most Sincerely,

SM and DH
---------------------------------

Next, tape the envelope shut with no money included and send it out. }:)

Our BM has started doing this as well but shes not cashing them at all! We think shes trying to "build a case" for contempt against DH. Shes going to try to pull the old "he never paid the $7 perscription!" DH send her these piddly checks and she doesnt cash them. She also doesnt sign for certified mail so we have no proff we sent them. God, get a life!!!! BM cant get a BF if her life depended on it so we're screwed

Send a Money Order or Cashiers Check via Delivery Confirmation with the USPS. Delivery confirmation is signed by the post office and not by the recipient.

Cashing of the money order/cashiers check is trackable through your bank or the institution where you purchased the MO.

During our own drama with the SpermIdiot refusing delivery of receipts that we send him to request payment for his half of uncovered medical expenses we learned that from a legal perspective refusing receipt is legally equivalent to accepting it. The judge reamed him a new asshole for that crap but ….. would not hold the SpermIdiot in contempt and told us to take him to small claims court. So now, after 17yrs of this crap the SpermIdiot is well past the level of small claims. He owes us ~$6K for his half of unpaid med expenses. Normal and usual co-pays for Doc visits and Rx’s a broken arm, years of glasses and contacts, knocking out two front teeth while eating a side walk during a bicycle crash, root canal, H1N1 hospitalization, etc, etc, etc ….

Adds up over the years.

We send him demand for payment and a copy of the receipts a couple of times a year just to keep the claim active and to keep penalties and interest accruing. Now that SS is 18 and visitation is no longer mandatory my wife may get around to suing his worthless ass.

At this point the $6K he owes us will be significantly more than that due to 17yrs of penalties and interest on the older stuff.

do you know where she bandks at? just take the checks directly to her bank and deposit them yourself, or send a money order or cashier's check

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