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End of the road...Finally....

mom23ms's picture

Submitted by mom23ms on Sat, 02/19/2011 - 12:33am

It's official, SO and I are done (my own doing.) There is no more lets work on things, lets she how things go, try one more time. OVER!

The straw that broke the camels back today was I haven't heard from SD2 in forever so it seems. She didn't even call or text to say thank you for the VDAY gift basket. SHE got in trouble at school and was going to be punished at SO's house so SHE chose not to come over. I don't even live with SO anymore (and she knows that) and yet she still calls me and leaves a voice message asking me to take her to her dance at school. What? Are you serious? I'm sorry but she has alot of nerve. she doesn't speak to me, thank me, appreciate me...instead she lies to me, steals from me.

This is what I have been trying to tell SO from the begining...she (and the eldest) are manipulators, users. SO's excuse "All they ever did was try to like you." WTF? That's not liking me, that is "using me."

I am so over it. I am done....he can deal with the BS.

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herewegoagain's picture

Submitted by herewegoagain on Sat, 02/19/2011 - 11:21am

Keep walking and don't look back...go find some peace and let these crazy families that were broken when we got there fix themselves! It's amazing to me that they are a messsed up family and when we come in WE are supposed to put up with their craziness or be the ones to sacrifice ourselves to helping the family...when they couldn't do it themselves...I say...FU#$# THEM too! Go on a trip and NEVER look back...May you find peace!

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Submitted by Butterflykisses... on Sat, 02/19/2011 - 11:29am

" Moving On......." Wink

I am right behind you. No thank you. Yes, that is not trying to "like" you but use you- jeez!

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Submitted by mom23ms on Sat, 02/19/2011 - 11:40am

I have friends who who had children from a previous marriage and married a man who had children. It really works for them except for the typical sibling bickering, there is always respect and love. But my friends have structure in their family and raised their kids with rules and consequences. They married men who believed in structure and had rules and consequences for their children. So it worked because they were BOTH on board and had the same views. I assumed it would work for me. I raise my birth children with rules, expectations, and dicsipline when needed....but it wasn't that way on SO's end. So of course it was a complete failure and waste of time.

I am focusing on me and my children and no one else. I am so happy I never married him because I truly think if I had, I wouldn't be able to leave. It's all about ME ME ME now! YAY!