I am so angry right now i could burst!!!!! E.T. has done it again!!!!! She got pissed at DH a couple weeks ago bc he called her to see if it was ok to drop SS off w her sunday morning instead of sunday bc SS was crying and said he wanted to go w mommy. SS is 3 and it was the first time he had spent more than one night away from her. i figures that was normal and told DH he should call E.T. and see what she said. she said of course no problem but later that night to tell him he was a douche and shouldnt "pawn" SS off on her. Ok maybe we shouldnt have called but wtf? She should have said it was not ok!!!! She even called FIL to complain about DH! Then DH was supposed to have SS xmas eve for a few hours but she never answered his calls or txts so DH couldnt pick him up. They hadnt set a time for him to come get SS and by the time she got back to DH it was like 9PM and she didnt want SS to go out bc it was too late and he had a cold. so guess what? DH runs his ass over to E.T.s place to see SS. I was furious and told DH how pissed i was but i couldnt exactly tell him to not go see his son. I mean, its not the kids fault his mom is from another planet and doesnt know the rules of typical human relatipnships. then a few days ago FIL asks DH to take his grandmother to the doctor bc she Is having trouble breathing. well DH suggests he take SS too bc he still isnt getting over this cold and the medicine the dr gave him isnt working. The kid has Brent sick pretty much all of december. so FIL calls E.T. bc she isnt answering DHs calls and tells her the kid needs to go to the dr asap. She agrees and FIL goes to pick him up. Turns out it is not a cold but a severe allergy and so DH gets the right meds and takes SS to E.T.s house. She gets furious when he tells her how much her half of the bill is. She says she isnt paying it and DH says he isnt going to fight about it and Will just deduct it from her next CS check. She then calls FIL to tell him that he should have taken SS to the Dr. Not DH and that he should have dropped SS off not DH and that since it was his idea to take SS to the Dr. he should pay for it, not her. excuse me but shouldnt you be glad you know know why your kid has been sick all month you brainless troll????? I cant belive she is such an ass! and i hate that FIL gets involved!!! And i hate that DH got involved w her in the first place and that she will be in my life forever!!!! Why do i have to deal w her crap??? I hate that i waited for the love of my life to start a family and all those things you are supposed to share w that special person and it will forever be tainted bc DH decided to get involved w that loser! I hate that she is in my life and i hate that it was DHs CHOICE to link their lives forever. Sometimes i feel like i made a big mistake getting involved w DH. I dont think there has been one day since i met DH that E.T. hasnt somehow come into my head. Its a text or a call or even just looking at a picture of SS who looks more and more like her everyday. I never thought this would be my life. Im sure i will be over it tomorrow and all gaga ove DH but tonight i am so glad for this place to vent. What a way to end the year!