Dh got so mad at bm last night!

Ss13 is on a trip to the capital, dh and him have been texting and talking. Now last night bm texted dh to tell him the 'news' about ss13 and what he is doing and said that if dh wanted to know what was going on that he can call her and she would be happy to tell him how ss13 trip is going. She implied that dh doesn't care what is going on with any of the boys b/c he doesn't call her or text her about how they are doing. Dh texted her back and said he doesn't need an update for her as he has been talking to ss13 himself. And as far as the others they have their own phones and he talks to them on their phones. Bm texted something nasty back and that he still needs to talk to her to find out the real deal.? HUH? Dh told her that if they are going to talk about that then he wanted to know why she hadn't reminded the boys to call him on his bday. Now he only said that to her to prove the point that if she thought that things should always go through her then it can't just be one sided. And that if she thought the boys are big enough to talk to their dad with out her then she should be reminding them about certain things. She got mad and refused to talk about that.

Dh's point is that the boys are old enough to talk to daddy themselves without her being in the way every single time.

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Sounds to me she is just

Sounds to me she is just begging for attention and or being nosey.

Yes dh barely talks to her

Yes dh barely talks to her and she tries so hard to get him to talk to her. Just like when she texted him one night at midnight wanting to know if he is still up. And for the record bm seems to think that the boys are not old enough to do anything on their own. They are 15, 13 and 11. Plenty old enough to do things on their own. They are very smart and very capable of so much. But she seems to only look at them as 2 year olds.

Oh yes deff they are more

Oh yes deff they are more than old enough to be able to talk with him and do pretty much everything else on their own without assistance of BM. It seems like when the kids with younger that gave her a "reason" to contact DH and get attention from him, now that the kids are grown up she doesn't know what to do with herself except look pathetic and needy lol.

Earlier on in our relationship, DH got a text from BM at 9a.m. while she was in VA Beach with ANOTHER guy saying how "she just wanted to be a family with DH" and blah blah blah. I just laughed. I don't think she realized what an idiot she made herself look like.

Crayon did you read my blog

Crayon did you read my blog from yesterday? TOTAL PSYCHO BM RANT!!!!

Me too I used to like it at

Me too I used to like it at first b/c dh wasn't fighting with me. But now I care less. I just wish she would stop trying to get my dh back. Like she has a chance. Please! Dh wants nothing to do with her at all. The more he ignore her the more she tries. I do think it is kinda funny though. She doesn't have a BF and I doubt she will ever have one let alone get married. Part of me wishes she would get with someone with little kids and she has to be the step mom with a psycho bm!!! }:)