Back Again and So is Crazy!
I am StepCoquette. I deleted my account in a stupid attempt to be positive about OneNighter (BM) and the future. Sometimes my own naiveté amuses me.
Long story shorter, OneNighter is bent on making our lives hell. OneNighter asked us to take SD and is now refusing to sign the paperwork saying she will see us in Court. This is seriously every week with this woman! So, we will see her in Court with all her emails and text messages about taking SD, when it's to start, etc. }:)
The downside is I was forced to talk to that crazy bat twice. I talked to her for hours on one day and then talked to her again. She is basically trying to mind fuck me and make me feel insecure about my relationship with my SO... and the worst part is that I let her. 
She actually had the audacity to tell me that if she wanted to, she could be with SO right now and that the reason they're not together is because of HER. In the same breath, she admitted they would have just been together "as friends," so WTF does that mean? She went onto say how sorry she feels for me and when the truth comes out I will be hurt. I suggested she tell me "the truth" then but, of course, she didn't have anything to say. Her reasoning, "I don't want to ruin Chrismas for anyone." Yea, right!
I have told SO that from this point forward, I am having NOTHING to do with that woman or XW. I am not talking to them, I am not transfering messages or anything back and forth. Nada. I will, of course, say "hi" if I see OneNighter, but that's IT. NOTHING MORE.
It feels freeing to put distance between myself and crazy and also to know that, no, I don't have to be nice to this woman who is not nice to me and tries to use me in some sick game.
And, what makes it even worse, OneNighter has been telling SD that she will live with us and go to a new school and SD seems SO excited and now who knows if/when that will happen? At the very least, it won't be until after the next hearing (next month).
I am so over this bullshit all the time. OneNighter truly needs to be medicated. Either that or run over with a tractor.
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I vote tractor! How do these
I vote tractor! How do these women pretend to be mother's when they are the first to destroy their children??? So so sad! Good idea to stay out of their communication, why even say hi? You can be distant and not be mean }:) I hope it gets much better for you!
I agree why say hi? I don't
I agree why say hi? I don't even say hi to BM anymore. I used to be the one to communicate, we were even friendly. Then she turned bitch again and actually thought I would side with her over DH. Now I look through her. She's invisible. She's nothing. She hates it. I decided it was too exhausting to pretend to like someone who is so horrible to my family. So I don't pretend anymore. Now I'm real.
She was manipulating you!
She was manipulating you! Don't let that poison in! Of course she cant be with your DH--he doesn't want her! If she was so indifferent as she claims, why would she give you and SO a hard time? SHE IS JEALOUS. Her line of talk is PREDICTABLE -- all the psychos are alike. Mental midgets and full of s***. Learn to spot verbal diarrhea and tune up your BS detector!
I agree with not saying hi.
I agree with not saying hi. Why would you? She has proven herself an enemy.
I would MAYBE say "Kiss my ass." if I happened to see our BM somewhere...
When I realized how much it
When I realized how much it bugged BM when I didn't acknowledge her existence I stopped even looking at her when she's around, let alone say hi. It's so fun because it drives her crazy she can't manipulate me }:)
I think I may have to try the
}:) I think I may have to try the approach of not even saying hello and seeing how that works!
I actually don't know how to drive a tractor, so I guess I'm just going to have to keep my fingers crossed that she gets on medication. }:)
I tried to have a
I tried to have a relationship with the BM! I heard the stories from SO about her craziness and lies but I didn't even have a clue at the extent of it. Once I went to a sporting event for the kid when SO was out of town..BIG mistake. She proceeded to fill me in on why they were divorced and to watch my back because he is a cheater with details. When he confronted her about what she said she told him I was the one that was quizing her and I told her I knew about the cheating story etc. WTF! He knew she was full of it but still. I have learned you can't be friendly with a psycho, they will stab you in the back every time. Especially a fake narcisitic BEOTCH like this crazy ass BM!
This is what OneNighter has
This is what OneNighter has implied to me. In our last conversation she also said that SO was a cheat in the past so I better watch out, and all this other stuff. As if she really knows anything about what he's like since they NEVER had a realtionship and she actually had a boyfriend she cheated on when she got together with my SO that one (horrible) night.