no way sister!lol biomonster will never be on my social networking radar.i don't even look at her fb page and i've got mine on the tightest setting available to keep her from snooping.fb breeds too much drama.stay far far away from that one.

She wants to check out your profile!!!! That's All! Ignore the request.

She want to get an Idea of what your world with her ex and her son is like and try and do a comparison.

DRAMA DRAMA DRAMA!!! Gotta Love BM's (Not!)

I have 2 BM's one I can not stand and would never be friends with be it on FB or anywhere else. So if she friended me I would immediately deny it. (actually she can't friend me because I've already blocked her ass) BM#2 I really don't care for but am civil with her as she's never been nasty to me. She sent me a friend request a while back and I just let it sit for like 3 months. I'd go from hell no!, to what's the harm?, to hell no! again. I finally decided to friend her but you can block certain friends from seeing you wall, pictures, email address etc. and that's what I did with her.

figured it was a nice gesture by her to send me a friend request, so I accepted her (kind of nice gesture back) but I blocked her from seeing pretty much everything except my wall.

Ignore ignore ignore. Nothing good will come of this...

hee hee. That just happened to me--while SD21 was visiting. I did accept her, felt like I had to. DH won't though. Nothing adverse from it yet but if there is, I will get rid of her.

HELL NO!!! BM is not and will never be a "friend" on FB or in real world. I have actually blocked her on my setting so she will never be able to find mine or DH profile. Our lives are private and we don't share information with her or skids. We don't care about her life either.

I would not add her and block her asap!

You can add her as a "friend" but set the securities so she can't see much at all. That would be a compromise if you don't want her to get too pissy.

But then again, if she is a psycho, no matter WHAT you do, she will probably get pissy!

I have no one under the age of 25 on my FB - my FB is for me and my adult friends to reconnect and stay in touch - so even my nephews and nieces who are under 25 are not accepted as friends and then I don't even really like accepting them - but I do just don't really interact with them. My SS has blocked me from his which is okay because I have disengaged and don't really care what happens with him - Hubby keeps up his relationship which he should - I see him 4 weeks of the year and that is enough for me after trying my best for 6 years to be there for him and care for him and provide for him to have him tell me this summer that DH and I do nothing for him and he wished we would I stepped away.

As for BM hell no - why would you want her all up in your business - tell her to make her own friends - you just stated that you don't get along who cares if she sees it as a slap in the face she is just nosy and wants to make trouble - ignore the request and then block her that is what I did with my BM - I blocked her from me and hubbys profile -

DO NOT ACCEPT THE BM's REQUEST YOU WILL REGRET IT THERE HAVE BEEN A FEW MEMBER HERE WHO HAVE AND HAVE GOTTEN BIT IN THE ASS!

NOOOOOOOOOO!!! Ignore it!!

Like you need to open up that can of worms!

I recently deleted my SD12's BM from my FB. I just did not see the need for her to be snooping in my business and I don't give a rip about what she is doing....she has a bad habit of involving herself in things that do not concern her and she woudl use FB as a method to do so. I was annoyed, so I just decided boundaries were necessary, even on a social site. She was offended, but she is dilusional. I have another BM of SD4 who is also on FB and we are not friends. She and BM1 are on FB and talk about how great their kids are and how they like to go out and do things together. It's gross. The only thing these two have in common are children from my DH.....they use FB to show the "world" how they are just the best of friends, never mentioning how wonderful my DH is...it's all about them. I just decided, I don't want to feed into their ridiculousness....
Don't friend her...seriously. It's not worth it. That's just my opinion.

I'm friends with my Ex's wife (my kid's SM) on Facebook. No problem, she's nice.

I'm not friends with my DH's ex-wife but not because of any animosity. She doesn't even have email - she has about a 90 IQ. I've tried to explain how to search for something in Google to her - she has no idea what a search engine is. She was going to ask her husband to look it up at work - they don't have a computer. OMG.

Ummmmm, hate to say it...she probably is already in your facebook since you said you have SS friended already. Unless of course your settings have been changed accordingly. If your BM is anything like mine, she already has his password and has been snooping. Just saying.

Ignore and block- and as you've got SS on there, I would change your settings for him so that he can't see anything on your wall and, like previous poster said, then BM can't see your stuff via SS (unless for some reason you want her to) If her number is blocked to your phone, she shouldn't get any more pissy about being blocked from your facebook. She's probably just tried to friend you because she wants to spy and for some reason people let down their guard when they're online- that or maybe she was drunk... Drunk people do stupid things on facebook. I can always tell when my friends have had a couple of coctails and start posting things or friending odd people

NOOOOOOOOOOOO! If she is petty she will think your "status updates" all refer to her - or god for bid you post pictures of yourself with the steps or something. Just from personal experience - I will NOT ever add BM or accept the request that has been sitting in my box for 6 months...I will NOT add anyone I do not know - especially those that are friends with her - I refer to them as "Russian Spies..." Avoid the drama and just hit ignore!