So, this may sound very weird but here it goes. Last year we got married and then soon after his ex was arguing with us that it was impossible because they wern't divorced. Of course in order to get a marriage license, we had to have the divorce certificate and we had it. Come to find out the government made a mistake and sent a 'false' divorce certificate so it annulled our marriage!!!
Everything happens for a reason I guess because last Saturday I gave him the ultimatum that if he didn't treat me better that I was out the door in 2 weeks! Things might be easier then I thought after all! I am done being put last and never being spoiled. Everytime I talk to him, he gets offended, thinks it's something that he needs to fix or take it as an insult and then yells at me. Sometimes all I wanna do is vent, I don't need anything fixed or whatever, I just need someone who listens. Guess it's too much to ask!
Little update on me not caring about SD13... it's working out perfectly for me. I'm so disengaging! Yesterday, I was in my car ready to leave for work. I was leaving a little early in order to spoil myself with a coffee and DH (or whatever it is considered now) texts me asking me to get SD up and get her some snacks for her lunch (we have it in a locked room cause they were just eating them and nothing left for school! I know sounds horrible but it's the only way we found that works). Usually I would have gone out of the car and did that for her and forget my coffee but guess what! I was strong enough to say that I was already gone! Felt so good to be so free and not feel guilty if she had a lunch or not. She had all evening the day before and could have asked me and I would have happily done that for her but she didn't so too bad!
Ok, that's my rent for today!