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Another Woman (update)

zenjetset's picture

OMG!!!! WTF?!?!?! This woman text my fiancé this morning at 7:15am with pictures if her!!! One photo had her in front of a bentley and the other in front of a small airplane. She texted saying that she was doing very well! That her boyfriend (who was not in the pictures) owned these things. and she was only asking him (my fiancé) for a favor to fix something. That his response to her text yesterday was uncalled for. She then insults him by saying, the car is a bentley in case you don't know what one looks like! Like as if my fiancé is an idiot! Dumbass chick! I want to beat her ass now. Why would a grown woman do this?!?! He texted her yesterday not not contact him again, apparently she doesn't know how to read! Someone said in my last blog that maybe she thought she is the best thing since sliced bread and honestly now after this texts and pics I have to agree!
This woman thinks she is all that and a bag of chips!!! Stupid idiot!! Honestly, the man f'd you once, you text him every month for over a year with no response, now you send him pictures of yourself, after he asked you to not contact him again!!!! So, so, so pathetic!!!!! And annoying!!!

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Synaesthete's picture

She seems awfully bound and determined to "prove" her relationship and success for someone who genuinely just wanted help with something. If that had been true she wouldn't be so hung up on it. He should block her number and nip it in the bud - she needs to get over it.

Moon Child Step Mom's picture

She does sound kinda stalkish…
I agree with the advice to ignore her and not give her the satisfaction of knowing she’s had any kind of affect on the two of you. Hopefully she’ll get the hint and move on.

Though I would keep a close eye on your guy to make sure he’s not secretly encouraging this in any way… some men just like the attention and keep passively encouraging these crazy obsessed women thinking “If I’m not physically cheating, it’s NOT cheating!” Know what I mean…?

Good luck darlin...

zenjetset's picture

I was thinking the same thing she is a c u next tuesday! She knows he is engaged and he asked her not to contact him again! Instead she calls his sister, then does this this morning!!! Crazy dumb bitch!!! I swear, this why I have wine in the frig at the ready!
I asked my fiancé do you NOW think you over reacted like your sister made you feel?! He laughed and said "no not at all"!!! In fact, I'm going to send my sister the text and pics!!! LMAO!!!! This woman is so ridiculously ludicrous and so seriously deranged!!!

stepmasochist's picture

I agree with the rest to ignore her. Maybe even report her to the cops if she keeps harassing FH.

But wouldn't it be fun in an alternate universe for FH to call her and say "Sure, I'll fix your house. What's your address?"

Then you go over there and stomp a mudhole in the illiterate freak!

Stick's picture

I was going to suggest texting her back 1 more time and say...

I am keeping track of your texts to me, and my texts back to you telling you to stop contacting me. In case I wasn't clear.. DO NOT CONTACT ME EVER AGAIN. If you do, I will be forced to get an order of protection against you.

And then just keep sending that to her, until she leaves him alone. And cc the stupid ass sister at the same time.

Tx mommy of 3's picture

Can you get her number blocked from his phone? Better yet, would he be willing to change his number? My dh has a lot of...'past'! Phone calls and texts finally stopped before we got married when he changed his number. There is just something too weird about this situation.

zenjetset's picture

The sister (I haven't met) is a bitch! According to fh. She is siding with her friend. Basically told him, that's what you get (referring to the pics and txt this morning) for being rude to her (Brenda). Maybe at this point the sister is encouraging her with the latest string of texting. If that's the case, I can't wait to meet this sister!!! We aren't responding because after all that's what she wants. She wants me and fh to stew over this, discuss itwith the sister and text something back. I find the more you ignore someone the more it tends to frustrate them eventually one out of two things happen. 1) they leave you alone or 2) the say and do something stupid that shows everyone around them just how petty, pathetic and deranged they are. Conclusion is you were right along for sending the orginial text asking them to not contact you any more!