dh is blind when it comes to his child...
So this weekend was his weekend and he stepped out for a few minutes and while he was gone, ss9 started singing to himself while he was playing his ps3. he was singing a song that was so not age appropriate. i didn't say anything to him because i did not want to have to explain to him what it was that he was saying if he didnt alreay know and have to get into that convo with him so i texted dh and told him what he was singing. when dh came in he asked what songs had been playing on his game to see if he would tell him so he could bring up the song and explain to him that he shouldnt say those things. well "the talk" never happend. i tell dh that he needed to talk to him about it and his response is "my son is innocent. he doesn't know what he's saying" im sorry but i really do think he did. funny the minute dh steps out he started singing it, he started singing it low and to himself then got louder as if he was baiting me to say something but like i said, it was not my place to explain to him what he was saying (all i'll say it was he was singing involved a woman's body part) just in case he didnt know but i highly doubt he had no clue. i just hate that he is really doing the whole..."not my child" thing...yes your child and no he is not as innocent as he would like to think.
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yeah but when he's singing
yeah but when he's singing unappropriate songs infront of MY child, i am going to tell his father. even if he wont do anything about it, at least i'll know next time to get on to him if his dad wont. i dont allow anyone to disrespect in my home.
well normally i wouldnt even
well normally i wouldnt even resond to your comments because i see all of your comments on people's posts and i know you just like the debate, but i'm bored so here goes.
if you'll read i said i dont allow anyone to disrespect in my home. i didnt say disrespect me and i do find it desrespectful for anyone including a child to use profaine language infront of my children and especially the p word infront of me and in my home and you are 9? NEGAGTIVE
tx, if dh won't help you out
tx, if dh won't help you out here..... yank the player out of his hands and tell him he can have it back after he apologizes and promises he will not sing material like that in yours or your child's presence......
if that doesn't work, take the batteries out while he is sleeping.... or soak it in the toilet for a few minutes, then he can only sing the tunes from memory....
and you have it wrong, in some people's world the skids are always right/perfect/wtf ever..... but not in my world... }:)
starfish...i love it!!
starfish...i love it!! believe me i thought about it!! i'm almost positive he knew exactly what he was saying, he's a smart kid and along with that, he's manipulative....just the way his mother taught him to be so i know he was just trying to see how far he could push me by singing that only in my presence. the singing stopped as soon as dh walked in the house...coincidence? i think not. i try to ignore most of the things he does to try to get at me but i cant allow him to do things like that infront of my kids. dd is 3, and like a sponge and i could only imagine what dh would say if he heard her singing that...then maybe ss may not be a perfect little angel like he likes to believe...