I found this site just a few days ago and I can't stay away from it. I have been with my boyfriend (BF) for 6 years, but split up three times. BF truley has the ex from hell - spawn of satan! BF has an only child and I have 4 children. We have many problems, most of our problems come from BF ex and his lack of putting BM in her place. I believe it is BM's goal to keep us apart and make our lives miserable.She doesnt want him and she has moved on and has another child with someone else.As you read this you will probably think that I am making it up, but I am not. The BM if a very jealous and she is just mean and evil. The BF's son and one of my son's go to the same school and play ball together. We were at a ballgame and in the hall and BM yells down the hall "Skanky ass whore" and tried to follow me into the bathroom but the BF pulled her back. Two weeks ago I went to the BF's house (we have not moved back in together yet) with my six year old son. The BM seen me on the road(flipping me off) and pulled in about a min after I did and said she was going to kick my ass. I got in the car, my son is there remember, I locked the door and BM continued to beat on my door and windows and then BM spit on my window before leaving. I have never been in a fight and BM has been in several. BM has few domestic violence charges on her. Where was the BF, he should have carried BM back to her car and told her to leave. Since then my son talks about it everyday.I did make a police report and wating to see if charges will be pressed. Last time BF and I broke up the BF stopped paying on the phone bill and was calling my children like at 1am to ask if I was home and asking questions he should not have been asking. So I had BF's line suspended. Guess what BF went to his ex BM and got on her phone plan. BM has been blocking the BF and my phones keeping us from talking (she is also very childish) when she doesnt get the response from the BF that she wants. In one week I changed my number 3 times, so we could talk. Right now as i am sitting her typing this my phone is blocked (I refuse to change my number again). I keep asking BF to switch back to my plan but he wont do it.BF also leaves phone in car when he is over here because he says it causes problems.makes me wonder tho BF drives to and works with BM's fiance, this is part of the reason they know all our business. I have caught BF in so many lies over the last few months.BF tells me one thing and does another trying to appease everyone or doesnt tell me the whole story (leaving parts out)he says he does this to avoid the fight, but when he gets caught the fight is much worse. BF's son and I had a great relationship until the last breakup. SC has been poisoned by the BM and for no reason, I have treated that child like my own when he is here, if my children got something, I made sure he did too. The SC was hoping the the BF would start dating a teacher of his (that is another story)!! The BM is also friends with her. The BM uses the SC as a bargaining tool, to get what she wants from the BF.BF has court ordered visitation but they dont follow it. BM will not let SC attend any of my family functions.He used to be allowed and everyone treated SC like one of the kids.But her family doesnt do alot of family functions therefore she is being selfish in not letting him attend.This past weekend when the BM was out "partying" she had a guy call BF and leave a voicemail saying that Jodi(the teacher)was out partying and trying to get ahold of the BF. Come to find out it was the BM trying to make trouble for us.She does this all the time. I am at the point where "I CAN"T TAKE IT ANYMORE", I love the BF and care for him very much.However he lets BM cause problems for us. I dont understand why she needs to call 5 times a day and call the BF at work.Usually nothing but filth comes out of her mouth(around the SC also).I dont understand why he continues to let this happen, I have given the BF many chances and it always ends in a fight with him telling me that I am always up his ass about something.Seriously 99.9% of our problems are due to the BM (who is always causing problems).
BF pays his child support but is always asking for more money and if he doesnt give it he doesnt get to see his son (he has court papers). Really who is she hurting? Yes it causes problems for the BF and me, but all she is doing is hurting her own son in the long run not to mention all the name calling BM does and puts the BF down in front of his son and again the child is the one that gets hurt.I could keep going on but I think this is long enough. Sorry didnt mean to ramble but if I say any thing to the BF i would be up his ass. Sorry one more thing. He has always been great with my children (19,17,15 and 6)attends their events but my middle son has seen me not happy and the toll it is taking on me and last week he told me "Mom take the trash to the curb and leave it, quit bringing it back in the house!" That really hit me hard. I feel in my gut that I need to move on, but when we are apart he is all I think about. I could go on this isnt even half of it. Thanks