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She's gone too far... (BM advice needed...)

Last-Wife's picture

Loca Grande has invited Princess's boyfriend to lunch on Saturday while the skids are there this weekend. Not normally a problem if he visits a short time, BUT THEY BROKE UP TWO WEEKS AGO! (Yelling for emphasis- not sure why everyone seems to be justifying caps today, but I thought I'd chime in...)

When we questioned Princess about this, she says its because Loca Grande misses him- let's call him Stepping Stone. Loca Grande wants them to get back together.

This would be a nightmare. Princess has actually been human these last two weeks. She talks to us- nicely. She comes out of her room and watches tv with us, and she plays with Gibby. She helps with chores. She doesn't huff and puff when I ask her to help.

She even agrees when Loghead and I have talked to her about how better her attitude and disposition is since Stepping Stone has been out of the picture.

Why is this really any of Loca Grande's business? Hell, just because she wants to be a grandma so bad, and thinks Princess should marry this guy? Like her youthful marriage worked out so well for her... (Princess is only 17 and doesn't graduate until May.)

I know I've been disengaged from Loca Grande for almost 7 weeks now, but I really feel like I need to intervene. This is stepping over the line. Princess even told her she didn't want Stepping Stone there, but Loca Grande said it was too late; she'd already invited him about bought his favorite foods for lunch.

Now I know Stepping Stone's mom isn't a fan of Loca Grande... Do I tackle it from that point? Do I confront Loca Grande? Do I leave it alone?

Princess doesn't want to hurt anyone's feelings. She's been trying to avoid him, and doesn't answer his calls, and turns her phone off at ten. She wants to still be friends with him, but she doesn't really want him at her mother's...

Help!

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herewegoagain's picture

Hmmm...all of their business...yep, the BM is crazy or whoever is inviting this other person...but her house, her problem...sad...sad...most that you can do is allow your SD to stay with you if she doesn't want to go...or maybe BM has the HOTS for him...hehe

Good luck...yes, most of these women seem completely crazy...

Anon2009's picture

I agree with herewegoagain. This is BM's house and therefore her problem. All you can do is support SD and be there for her.

Snowflake's picture

Do you know steppingstone's mom? If so I would give her a call and tell her the situation, that Loca Grande is trying to get them back together, and asked him to lunch. If his mom isn't a fan, then she may be the one to nip it in the bud.