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quick survey..boys urinating in backyard?

smnikki's picture

for those bm and sm's i guess, what is your opinion of posting photos on your myspace of boy (around the age of 4) urinating on a wall in your back yard?

mind you..there is no issue of wet clothes from swimming, a bathroom steps away...

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Rags's picture

Peeing outside is a male right of passage. Lets face it, with the incredible abilities, intellect and femanin intuition that you ladies posses, the only thing left that is uniquely male is our ability to pee on a wall and to get laid with our pants on. Biggrin

My parents have many pictures of my brother's and I peeing outside on walls and on countless other inanimate objects.

If the picture posted to MySpace is just a cute picture and not overtly sexual I see nothing wrong with it.

Best regards,

Success is rarely final. Failure is rarely fatal. It is character, courage and consistency of effort that count. Vince Lombardi (with some minor Rags modifications) To each according to their performance, screw Karl Marx. (Rags)

stepmom2one's picture

not ok. My BILs ex posted a pic of their son on Myspace doing this (you could see his butt cheeks) we printed it out and sent it to the lawyer.

He sent her a nasty letter, demanded it be taken down or he was submitting it to the DA. She took it down but he has that on file.

stepmom2one's picture

btw he was about 4 or 5 at the time

it is cute to have at home but not on myspace for psychos to see

herewegoagain's picture

My son is 8 and has never done this...so...hmmm...I don't agree w/either...I've seen people who don't seem to think it's a big deal when it's a little kid, but I always taught my child that's what the bathroom is for and he would never do this...hmmm...much less, would I put a picture of it anywhere...

vgill's picture

Go ahead pee outside!! people have been doing it for centuries!! just make sure they know not to do it in certain places!! I have 4 boys and they all do it on occaision, and so have my 2 girls when we have had to pull the van over on the side of the road in the middle of nowhere... and guess what so have I!!!! I just dopn't agree with posting pictures like that online, you might think it is just a cute funny pic of your kid but some other pervert, may also see this and they can find out where you live. So just to be safe keep those funny pictures at home to show future girlfriends and make his face turn red! LOL!!

smnikki's picture

well i think there is a difference in where and why...

i think that there are always time when everyone adults and kids HAVE to go and there is not a restroom near by. that in my opinion is okay.

for a child who is in there own backyard, steps from a bathroom, to be encouraged or taught its okay to pull down his pants and urinate in the back yard is absolutely disgusting and low class. I am mortified that people even think its okay behavior regardless of the photos. I would think WAY less of any of my friends allowed their kids to do this. ss is also being taught by bm that its okay to , ALWAYS pee in the shower in the morning, and he even pees in the bath tub while taking a bath. white trash and disgusting

i think its horrible and disgusting and my children will never be allowed to do these things.

Rags's picture

I was thinking more about wizzing in the wilderness than in the backyard. Though I am sure at some point in my childhood I peed on a tree in the backyard.

When I was a kid Dad, my little Bro and I would finish a camping trip by standing around the fire pit and peeing on the fire.

Good memories.

Success is rarely final. Failure is rarely fatal. It is character, courage and consistency of effort that count. Vince Lombardi (with some minor Rags modifications) To each according to their performance, screw Karl Marx. (Rags)

Amazed's picture

My husband taught the "peeing outside" thing to my son on an emergency basis only when choochoo REALLY had to go...Dh even gave it a fun little name "Come on Choochoo...let's do The Guy Thing!" So a few months later I noticed choochoo ran outside alone...I go out after him and see him peeing on a tree next to our garage. I was like, "um what the hell are you doing choochoo??!!!" He looks at me all surprised and says, "I had to go pee so I'm doing The Guy Thing mommy!"

"Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else." ~Judy Garland

Amazed's picture

looking back... it was very cute but at the time I was so disgusted and ashamed that my son was taking a pee right next to our garage...Fortunately, he understands it's for emergencies only now like if we're hiking or something and he can't hold it. When I told my DH what happened he just cracked up and says, "yup that's my boy!!"

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"Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else." ~Judy Garland

Amazed's picture

lol...my face turned 3 different shades of red I think! Smile

"Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else." ~Judy Garland