My SO best friends, a christian couple that he see's as family, tonight he went to see them as he felt that there was a little tension towards me. The women in this couple has never made an effort to get to know me as she is scared to just in case we break up (her exact words).... WTF????? We have been going out 16months and friends for a year before that. She has been told that I am only with my SO to get a child the easy way (since when has step parenting been the easy way????) and that the only reason my SO other want increased access is because I want a child...... not because he wants to be a part of his sons life. After alot of talking it came out that BM has been running to this couple saying that SO and I have been trying to take 'her son' away from her. I am so sick of BM's lies....... and people judging me based on what they have heard from BM!!!!!