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Pretty sure OSD is going to skip her court date today

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Wed, 12/28/2016 - 8:01am

OSD (who lives in another state) has court today here in our state for a theft charge. (2nd theft charge)

Pretty sure she is not going to make it.

She hasn't said a word to DH about coming to our state. Not that she hasn't come to our state without letting DH know before, BUT it is close to Christmas so I would assume if she was in town she would make a point to see DH in hopes of some Christmas cash. Also I have not seen anything on FB about her traveling. She posts everything.

It's a 6 hour drive from her state to our state.

So if she doesn't show up, she will have a warrant issued. Which I hope means she will less likely come back to our state. I know her DH also has an outstanding warrant in our state too.

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Submitted by WalkOnBy on Wed, 12/28/2016 - 8:45am

Yeah, she's not coming. There is NO WAY she would be in your state and not let DH know so she can pick up her Christmas gift.......

It really doesn't get better with this one, does it?

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Wed, 12/28/2016 - 8:52am

I'm not going to lie... I get a little satisfaction in seeing her such a hot mess. More so as a "I told you" to DH and it justifies how I feel about her and not wanting her around. But going into 2017 I'm trying to be less concerned with the skids and their failures.

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Submitted by WalkOnBy on Wed, 12/28/2016 - 8:55am

I would feel the exact same way, zero. Totally validates your assessment of her and of course that feels good.

I feel the same way about ASS, to some extent.

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Wed, 12/28/2016 - 9:00am

It feels good but it also keeps things "fresh" if that makes sense? I like to know what is going on with the skids so I am prepared and not caught off guard. But I would really like to get away from that feeling of feeling like I always have to be on guard. Make sense? I just want to live my life and not worry about them. I think DH and I are in a good place where I don't have to worry about him trying to push them on me or ask them to stay with us or anything. I think he now sees them for who they are and he is "accepting" it more.

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Submitted by WalkOnBy on Wed, 12/28/2016 - 9:05am

Yep - totally hear what you're saying...every once in a while, I find myself in that place, but I just tell myself that it isn't my business and if it is, DH will bring it to my attentioin.

I, too, like to be prepared Smile

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Wed, 12/28/2016 - 8:54am

Exactly. That is why I'm pretty sure she isn't planning on showing up for her court date.

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Wed, 12/28/2016 - 9:10am

I'm glad that DH is finally seeing it. I saw their behavior and where it was going way before he did. Of course I was the crazy one who was making a big deal out of nothing. His children are criminals. I am glad he can see it now and he has created some distance between them and us and our home.

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Wed, 12/28/2016 - 10:07am

You know damn well she wouldn't even appear if she was still living in your state. She's like BM1.. that's how they roll. No respect for authority or doing the right thing... just ignore it and hope it goes away and when it doesn't lie your way out of it. Scumbags.