BM Walking into my house
Yesterday BM brought the kids by to give DH some father's day gifts. She just walks into the house behind the kids like she owns the place. I tried to close the door before she walked in but she bumped me out of the way. DH tried to ask her to wait outside for the kids but she ignored him and gave him a wrist watch that had bought for him. He said thank you politely and tried to get her to leave. I whispered to her if she doesn't leave I'm calling the police and I don't want to do that in front of the kids. She became irate and caused a big scene telling the kids its time to leave because daddy doesn't want them their. DH tried to tell the kids he loves them but BM kept going on and on and they left in tears. DH did however get a chance to talk to them over the phone this morning and apologize for yesterday and let them know that they are loved. What is your procedure when your BM tries to walk into your house.
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We are the one's who have
We are the one's who have custody so I haven't had to deal with that powerless feeling of SS being yanked out of our house. But I have flat out told the Incubator that she is not allowed to taint my home by walking in it.
^^^^^I LOVE, LOVE THIS^^^^^
^^^^^I LOVE, LOVE THIS^^^^^ I've been putting up with Swamps rudeness for 8 years everywhere, even on my own property. I'm definitely taking this idea seriously. Thanks!!!
Just a few weeks ago BM
Just a few weeks ago BM unexpectedly dropped off SD, in the middle of her weekend...we were upstairs f-ing like animals(hoping for baby #2!)BM not only walked into our house...but came upstairs to see where we were!!...since we thought we were alone we obviously didn't have the door closed so she saw what we were doing, yelled at SD to stay downstairs, apologized and promptly left, very embarrassed I'm sure. I'm not bothered by it at all and in fact think it's amazing since she NEVER wanted to be intimate with DH and now at least she calls before showing up! win win!
I live in a protect your
I live in a protect your castle state. No - I would not shoot BM but she doesn't know that.
My gun is in a carrier that looks like one of those bible cases. I'd just pick it up (totally in the carrier) and tell her that she did not want me to unzip that case.
Bm has been made aware from
Bm has been made aware from day one that she may not set foot on our property. If she did, I would call the police, have her removed, and press charges. Period.
My reaction? "Why hello BM,
My reaction? "Why hello BM, have you met my .9mil that used to be YOURS? I'd be happy to reintroduce you unless you kindly get THE FUCK OUT OF MY HOUSE"
Dumbass set foot in my house
Dumbass set foot in my house once and one time only, just inside the doorway. I came around the corner and saw it. the eye contact she got from me was like the Eye of Sauron. without a word i turned around and walked away, but she must have felt the Eye upon her presence, as she quickly skittered out the door and has not made the same mistake again. i think every time she pulls in the driveway she must feel the Eye upon her..... even if i'm not home. }:)